The Pleasure Manor new!
We are in the process of opening an alternative lifestyle on premises private parties in the Bellingham/Custer area of Washington. Our opening date is set for early May, 2007. The Pleasure Manor is an on-premise private party house on a beautiful five acre property. There are four playrooms, a group/play room, a wet bar, Jacuzzi (no bathing suits allowed). Dinner is catered, along with appetizers, mixers (byob), juices and sodas. We provide towels, sheets, an assortment of condoms, lubricants, personal wipes, toothbrushes, mouthwash, etc. Mostly we provide a LOT of fun in a safe, no-pressure atmosphere. We've tried to think of everything for your comfort. You can contact us at: trapi1965@yahoo.com. Because this is a private party, it's by invitation only. Tracy.

Desert Delights new!
The goal of Desert delights is to bring open minded couples in the lifestyle, or couples exploring the lifestyle, together in a atmosphere dedicated to people that love the variety of desires. This group will not only serve as a place for you to meet other couples, but will become the place to get the latest information on upcoming dances and/or events. our web site can been seen at WWW.desertdelights2.com or you can email our owners at desertdelightsclub@charter.net

SnoCo Swingers new!
^There is no place like SNO CO Swingers^ This is a lifestyle group for snohomish county swingers and those willing to travel to Snohomish county for parties. A group for all of those into or interested in the lifestyle. We are looking forward to lots of hot summer nights in the near future,,,,,,wont you join us to make the party all the more funner? Come grow with us!

ClubPassions
We host dances and get togethers to help swingers in NorthWest Washington meet people. We will be building our own on site facility by 2006. please attend one of our dances.

Is a club for mature adults who enjoy honest and loving relationships of other mature adults in the alternative Lifestyle. From Canada to California we have many people from all over and thats what makes Club Passions a very fun group of people.

Club Passions was established so that honest loving couples & singles have a way of gathering to meet old friends and new friends in the Lifestyle without the fear of crossing those boundaries not understood or accepted by the public.

We do accept memberships from other NASCA Affiliate clubs and ask new members to attend a brief orientation session held prior to each dance. We sponsor other events and parties occasionally, e-mail Sandy for more information. While we have no dues or fees associated with obtaining membership, we do charge $25.00 admission per couple to each dance. Doors open at 7:00 pm and dancing starts at 8:00 pm and goes on until midnight. Our professional DJ plays your favorite music and takes requests. Special theme parties occasionally at the dances check the Dance link for dates and themes. Greet your friends or meet new friends at our dances and events

We are a off-premise club with a minimum age restriction of 21 years old.

Swinger Info

NASCA defines swing clubs as any organization, formal or informal, which exists to provide swinging activities. Swing clubs exist in a variety of forms. These include Swing Clubs, Party Houses, Circles and Socials, Bars and Cocktail Lounges and Contact Services. All but the contact services may be on-premises or off-premises. Contact services work through the mail or telephone and rarely provide swing parties although they may promote group travel. Parties given by on-premises swing clubs may have from ten to sixty or more couples, though twenty to forty couples is the common average. On-premises means that sexual activity occurs at the party. Off premises swing clubs, cocktail lounges and bars help you to meet other swingers. Swinging will be elsewhere with the interested couples and singles responsible for the arrangements. The arrangements include who is to be invited, the location, date and time.

The on premises party offers a wide possibility of social interaction, selection, potential of swinging with others in a foursome, threesome, one-on-one, or in a group scene. Bisexual as well as heterosexual swinging is possible, principally among women. And the club on-premises party offers this without pressure in a structured environment. Private, semi-private and group rooms are generally provided to meet the desires of virtually everyone. Heated pools, Jacuzzi’s and hot tubs may be available to accent the social environment.

Couples in Swinging

Swinging is "the recreation" for couples whether they are married, committed (having an ongoing emotional commitment), living together (co-habitating, with or without an on-going intimate relationship) or single couples who date. A study of swinging couples (McGinley, 1979) reported increased enjoyment and satisfaction in the relationships accompanied by a better understanding of self and mate, greater intimacy between the partners and a decrease in sex role playing and sexist expectations.Swinging enables a couple to explore sexual and social feelings and needs together, permitting a demystification of sex which allows sex to assume a place in the relationship unhindered by the standard ties to love, duty, sex roles and morals of others.

Becoming a Swinger - Reasons for Swinging
It is generally felt that you can divide swingers into those who participate for recreational and those who participate for utopian reasons. Recreational swingers see swinging as a social activity much like bowling, playing tennis and cards. Utopian swingers have a general philosophy of communitarianism and wish to share not only sex but all other aspects of life with their fellow participants.At this time there are relatively few scientific data that indicate what long-term effect swinging actually has on marriages. Nevertheless there is a general belief among swingers that swinging has a positive effect upon a marriage. They believe that sexual fidelity is harmful and breeds jealousy and a feeling of ownership between a husband and wife. According to them swinging does away with jealousy and helps each mate see the other as an individual and not as a possession. Another reason for participating in swinging is boredom with marital sex. Swingers feel that it is impossible for one person to satisfy another sexually over an extended period of time. Swinging is seen as a method of adding new excitement to the marriage, perhaps even salvaging it. Most swingers know couples who have tried to salvage a bad marriage by swinging, but they argue that this generally has not been very successful. Most swingers believe that swinging alone cannot save a bad marriage. They do believe that it can strengthen a good marriage.There may be deeper psychological reasons for swinging. It is believed that men may need to translate early sexual fantasies into reality and that women may be fulfilling social-romantic needs. Some believe that because of the marginality of the new middle class, they seek experiences with others in order to feel they belong. They participate in swinging to develop social ties and to satisfy the need tor sexual fulfillment that is a result of their restrictive middle-class backgrounds. Swinging gives them an opportunity to do both without disrupting their general lifestyle.All reasons, whether social, psychological, or sociological, are at the present time only speculation. One could easily conclude that the reasons for participating in swinging are as varied as swingers themselves.

Etiquette In Swinging
(Common Sense and Social Courtesy)The following article was written by Kenn & Lisa Alameda, CA 94501

All of us want to be successful as swingers. It doesn't matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style we swing. One of the nicest things about our lifestyle is that most of us relate to each other with understanding, thoughtfulness, and common courtesy; just as we ourselves wish to be treated. Think C.S.A.S.C. (Common Sense and Social Courtesy). If you employ the following suggestions or adapt them to your own situation, you should become a welcome participant.

1. BE COURTEOUS
Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and Silver rules.

2. BE FRIENDLY
Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.

3. RESPOND TO ALL INVITATIONS
RSVP means please reply to the invitation. It does NOT mean reply only if you plan to attend. The most frustrating part of hosting, be it a party, a group or another couple, is people who are discourteous enough not to respond, PERIOD. Good etiquette and good social courtesy DEMAND you respond, by either calling or writing to say yes OR no.

4. NEVER ARRIVE EMPTY HANDED
When you go to someone's home for a party, ask if there is something you can bring. (it's amazing how many supplies, other than food are used up at an average party.) If you are not going as a couple, a house- gift is appropriate (and not necessarily wine.)

5. GO PREPARED
Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc. If you plan to stay over, sleeping bags or blankets and pillows are necessities.

6. CLEANLINESS
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.

7. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS
Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.

8. DON'T BE PUSHY
If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.

9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU
Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO
One of the basic etiquettes in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.11.

ALCOHOL OR DRUGS
Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.

12. PRACTICE SAFER SEX
It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.

13. CALL TO SAY THANKS
Most people only use the telephone if they are going to go somewhere. Lost seems to the social ambiance of a 'Thank-You Note' or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed. It means a lot to most people, and they will surely remember you when planning their next event. Don't you like to be thanked?

14. BE GOOD HOSTS
When you have people coming to your home, try to anticipate their needs: put clean sheets on the beds; keep plenty of clean washcloths and towels available. Show your guests through the house so that they will know where the bathrooms, kitchen, and other rooms are located.

15. ANSWERING ADS
All replies to an ad should be answered in two weeks even if it is a No. Remember not all people you write to are interested in you or your partners sexual heroics. A first letter should include a brief description of yourselves, where you saw the ad, your ad number and your social and sexual interests. An SASE should be included with your original reply as many couples receive a large number of replies which can be costly to reply to.

16. ENJOY YOURSELF

Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.

SWINGING at On-Premise Clubs and House Parties...

RELAX and GET ACQUAINTED
When at an on-premise club or swing house party, you are there to have the best of times and to share the uninhibited enjoyment associated with those who have discovered a new dimension in their lifestyles. Once you have become familiar with the surroundings and staff members or host/hostess, try to become as at ease as you would be at any other social gathering. Don't hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people. You'll find them eager to welcome you and to help you blend into their circle of sincere comraderie.

SOME TIPS ON ETIQUETTE
While you are advised to be congenial and outgoing, don't be "pushy". Many couples who are new to "swinging" often have unrealistic expectations and are not prepared to handle rejections that may sometimes occur. Freshly showered, perfumed, and neatly dressed people make more contacts. Don't let your personal physical idiosyncrasies stop you from having a good time. No one is perfect [although it is common for new "swingers" to see others as more attractive or more verbal as themselves]. Don't let your own mind be your worst enemy. Be prepared to handle rejection but don't take it personally. It is important to remember that

PERSONAL CHOICE
Is the right of every individual and to 'respect that right' is only common courtesy. Learn how to accept "no thank you" graciously. Your approach -- which should be the same as it would be at any social setting -- is a key factor to your acceptance as a desirable partner/friend. There are several variations to "swinging" and it is important that you and your mate decide, in advance, those which you like and dislike. Some couples prefer to be alone, while others prefer to be with other couples. Establish your own ground rules, but please decide on them BEFORE you start "swinging".

JOIN THE CONVERSATION
Some people will probably "break the ice" by introducing themselves, along with other couples they know. It's their way of making you feel at home. Feel free to join their conversation and you'll find that most of them will be happy to answer any questions you may have about the "swinging" lifestyle. Be open and honest. Tell them that you are new to "swinging" and you'll discover how helpful people can be.

START OFF ON THE RIGHT FOOT
On your first venture into the swinging scene, you may feel somewhat uneasy about seeing your mate with someone else. Some "swingers" want to share swinging with their mate and feel uneasy having their mate leave to another room with someone. Everyone has their own reasons for their feelings and all feelings are real and should be respected. To avoid embarrassment or disillusionment, discuss your inhibitions with your mate beforehand. Both of you may be more comfortable after talking to other couples and learning how they handled their first "swinging" session.

Jealousy In Swinging

Generally, swingers do not show jealousy on the surface. Most swingers argue that this is because by going to parties together and leaving together, they realize their commitment to each other as a couple. Thus, they do not feel threatened because the other partner has gone into another room to have sexual relations with another individual. One such swinger said, "We both know that each of us have experiences with other people and, yet, we come back to each other because we want to be together" They feel that this gives you a feeling of security that you never had before because you feel and know that the partner is coming back to you even though they have had a sexual relationship with someone else. They feel that this builds up self-confidence and security.

For a couple to engage in swinging, they must throw off the belief that having sexual relations outside of marriage is improper; they must break the shackles of the double standard. That is, the wife will be having sexual relations with other males much as the male may have had sexual relations outside the marriage with another partner previously. Swinging for most women changes their view of the world and sexual relations. Many argue that it has made a complete turn-around in their life from the way they viewed the world two or three years before swinging. In attempting to determine what causes some women to go into swinging, I have already noted that many are urged by their husbands and others go into swinging to carry out their fantasies. One such woman I interviewed reported that she finally acquiesced in going to a swinging party saying that she would not participate but would be willing to go and observe, have dinner and a drink or two.

Club Passions is a off-site club and provides dances and events for couples and select singles. This info is to help you understand more about the lifestyle and partys that you may be invited too.

Desert Delights
DD is intended to be a gathering place for consenting adults that enjoy the loving relationship and friendship of other like-minded adults.

Comfortable and Safe environment:

Our goal is to help provide a safe atmosphere where we can all be open with one another. DD was established so that loving honest couples have a safe way to meet with old friends and have a place to meet new ones. We also strive to provide a place where the lifestyle can be openly viewed without fear of breaking boundaries that the general public or others have set.

We all, for one reason or another need to be discreet about the choices we have made to be a part of the lifestyle. DD for that reason will keep all personal information exactly that, PERSONAL and PRIVATE. As well as keep private gatherings membership only events.

Dances are a place for people in the lifestyle to meet eachother in a non threating safe envirnment. All folks in the lifestyle are welcome as long as you are a couple. A couple is thought of as friends bf/gf married or not.

The Public:

We are not open to the public; we are a private, membership only club. You must join the club in order to attend any of the social events. We always open up the dances to members of other social clubs and to those in the lifestyle. Dances are open to couples in the lifestyle, we charge 30.00 per couple that is a club member, the fee for non-club members is 35.00 per couple.
Thank you,

IF you would like to Join our club the dues are $ 24.00 per year per couple, we will put you on our news letter list and invite you to all the other functions we do as a group. We do things like camp trips, house parties, dinners and family friendly events. We are open to help and suggestions as well.

Email us at Desertdelights@hotmail.com.

Entre Nous
Every Saturday Night at BAR NUN
1326 U Street, NW, Washington, DC 20009
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/entrenousthedcswingersclub/join

Admission: No Membership Required. NO Single Men Allowed $40 per Couple - 10$ For Single Women~ unless you have a VIP Card read below!

You must be 21 years of age or older to attend Entre Nous. Feel free to dance in our Cyber-Erotic Fiber Optic Dance Cage as well. For directions to Bar Nun please visit mapquest.
Women well outnumber the men, and have the run-of-the-house.

Parking/ Metro: We suggest you park at the Reeves Center. The Reeves Center is a municiple building located at 14th and U Street (1/2 block from the club). 15th and 14th on U Street (U as in YOU). You just pull up to the lot entrance gate (it is an underground lot with security) The lot is opened past 3am, so you can still retrive it after the club closes. They charge $10 for the parking.

Also, remember that the Metro station is only a half block from the club! Green Line U Street/ Cardoza metro stop. The metro is open until 2am on Saturday nights. If you do not live too far away, you may just want to metro in, and grab a cab home.

Single Women:

New Policy for single women attending Entre Nous!
Please Read!

As an incentive to join the Entre Nous yahoo group, and to be active on it, we have changed the entrance policy to Entre Nous for single women. Single women who are members of the yahoo group can get in for FREE to Entre Nous if they either print off the main yahoo group page and show it at the door, or give the weekly password that will be sent out. Otherwise the cover charge to enter the party will be $10.

THIS WEEK's Password is "Liptick Fem"

Also, be sure to see the Entre Nous dress code for ideas on what to wear to Entre Nous.

Free Champagne for the Ladies in the Goddess Lounge at 12:30 Dancing on Two Dance Floors All Night Long to the music by our Resident DJ LONDON.

Capital Lipstick Yahoo Group- for bi/ bi- curious women.

http://www.entrenousqueen.com/hottie.html

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/capitallipstick/join

Fuck Club NW
Please see group webiste for all related information.

Hugs
Spokane's Original Dance Club

HUGS! is the Inland Northwest's original dance and social club for couples. Dances held twice monthly and other periodic social activities for couples in a relaxed, no pressure atmosphere. Greet your friends or meet new friends at our dances. We are a couples only off-premise club with a minimum age restriction of 21 years old. HUGS! membership extends from Calgary to Boise and from Yakima to Missoula. We have dances on the 1st & third Saturday of each month. We do accept memberships from other NASCA Affiliate clubs and ask new members to attend a brief orientation session held prior to each dance. We sponsor other events and parties occasionally, call for more information. While we have no dues or fees associated with obtaining membership, we do charge $30.00 admission per couple to each dance. Doors open at 7:00 pm and dancing starts at 8:00 pm and goes on until midnight. Our DJ plays your favorite music and takes requests. Special theme parties occasionally at the dances, see the calendar section. HUGS! also offers members an opportunity to discuss this chosen lifestyle with other members in a relaxed group discussion forum called our Rap Sessions. We hold the periodic Rap Sessions quarterly and all are welcome. We also use the Rap Sessions as an opportunity for Club business.

Love Lounge Seattle
Beautiful and bi? We're for couples and single bi femmes who want to meet outside the usual "club scene."

"The Pacific Northwest's
Beautiful Party!"
"A Private Club For "Bi & Beautiful"
Women & The Men Who Love Them..."

There's a buzz for a reason! If "couples clubs" typical to the swing scene have disappointed you, Love Lounge Seattle will help you make "real" connections. We provide delightful introductions for discriminating single bi (or bi-curious) women and for discriminating couples.
Both a time and a place to meet more than one exxciting possibility at a time! :-)

Love Lounge Seattle is a "cocktails and conversation" club for bi or bi-curious females and their partners. We aspire to be the Pacific Northwest's premier adult social club for beautiful bi femmes and the most discriminating swingers in the Seattle/Puget Sound area. We offer a discreet and genteel, yet effective, approach to multi-partner dating. No theme, no entertainment, just "sexy" mixing. You will meet like-minded women and couples at some of Seattle's most unique (elegant??) restaurants, cafes and lounges.
The friendly, non-threatening environments (with food, drink, merriment and a little flirtation) avoid possible awkwardness and "pressures found at other venues. You will find it easy to meet companions and playmates.

Love Lounge Seattle will set the stage for each gathering, including planning venues and times (that suit your busy schedule), issuing invitations and making reservations. Members simply RSVP from their email box, then enjoy the evening, without interference from your
Love Lounge Seattle hosts.

Love Lounge Seattle is not a "swing club social", a "speed dating" service or another "girl-girl" dance party. Love Lounge was created to provide members an expanding circle of friends in a safe environment while experiencing swanky, sensual settings one establishment at a time.

Interested in a little more? We also offer "Select Membership" events of a more sensual persuasion!

We invite:

Those interested in meeting
and mingling with like-minded
adults that have female
bisexuality or bi-curiosity
in common.

Single bi or bi-curious females
who would like to get
together in Seattle hot
spots and swankiest settings.

Couples curious
about alternative lifestyles.

Swinging couples who would like to meet outside the usual
"swing club scene."

We offer evenings of
cocktails & conversation
for the swing-ier set.
Dining pleasure for beginners
and connoisseurs.
Select soirees with a
definite sensual air. ;-)

We're female owned & operated.
Private. Safe. Discreet.

FAQs

What kind of events does Love Lounge Seattle convene?

We convene two types of events. Regular Events are held at carefully selected restaurants, cocktail lounges, clubs, etc. Select Events are held at similar venues, but may also include hotels, group travel, cruise ships, etc.

What is the difference between Regular Membership and Select Membership?

Regular Members undergo a fairly superficial screening and are free to attend any Regular Events. Select Members undergo a more rigorous screening, including submission of photos. Based upon their profiles and at the sole discretion of Love Lounge Seattle, Select Members are also invited to Select Events, which cater to their interests and preferences.

Are all Regular Members eligible for Select Membership?

Yes, provided that they successfully undergo the screening process and have an understanding that Love Lounge Seattle may not be able to offer Special Events to them until their interests/preferences are sufficiently represented. (So, please encourage your friends to apply!)

What is the Love Lounge Seattle charge for events?

Generally, Love Lounge Seattle does not charge any additional fees for attendance at Regular Events. If a cover charge is required, it will be announced. You pay for your own entrance fee (if any) to the venue and for your meal and/or drinks. We want you to be as lavish as you choose. :-)

Appropriate fees will be charged for Select Events.

How much are meals?

We select venues that typically charge in the $10 to $40 per person range excluding alcohol. Many of our members forgo meals altogether and simply enjoy appetizers and drinks and maybe dessert.

How do we deal with the dinner or bar "check"?

We prearrange that credit cards, checks or cash will be accepted from individual members by each establishment.

I don't drink. Will I be pressured to?

No. Our gatherings are not typical of the nightclub scene so you will feel far less pressure to drink. There's never a need to cave in to pressure and you will notice others in the group that choose to refrain. So have what you like and enjoy yourself.

Is there a minimum or maximum number of events to attend?

Attend as many or as few as you like!

Can I attend an event before I join?

As privacy and discretion are of utmost importance to our membership we are unable to allow non-members to "visit". We hope you understand.

May I bring a guest or guests?

Again, privacy and discretion are in order so we are unable to allow "guests." Please invite your friends to join Love Lounge Seattle, provided they meet our membership requirements.

What does membership cost?

A Couples Membership is $100.00/yr. A Single Membership is $45.00/year.

What is included in my membership?

Email invitations to Regular Events, access to members only sections of this website, Love Lounge Seattle Private Yahoo Group membership and occasional bonuses. You may also apply for Select Membership.

Is there a dress code?

Sexy yet tasteful (ladies read...understated think "very special first date" and you can't go wrong) dress or cocktail dress at night. Men, no jeans, t-shirts or athletic wear of any kind. Open up a copy of In Style magazine for ideas of what we consider suitable attire.

Where can I buy tasteful but sexy apparel?

There are really great shopping options at Bellevue Square Mall if you stick with the basics (anything black). There are also great boutiques downtown. You can always shop online.

What kind of people join a club like Love Lounge Seattle?

Those interested in meeting and mingling with like-minded adults that have female bisexuality or bi-curiosity in common! Single bi or bi-curious females who would like to get together in more intimate settings. Couples curious about alternative lifestyles. Swinging couples who would like to meet outside the usual "club scene." Love Lounge Seattle is a great place for members to meet others while in the safety of a public place. It's also a great place to meet more than one couple at a time.

Can anyone join?

No. We limit our group to attractive, HWP (height-weight proportionate) adults with a healthy interest in female bisexuality. Committed couples (female must be bi or bi-curious and male should be loving and supportive about this) or single bi-curious or bisexual females seeking the same or couples as an alternative to dating. All members must be 21 years of age or older.

Is there an age restriction?

Yes. You must be at least 21 years of age to be a part of our group.

I'm a single male. Am I allowed to join?

In ONE word, No.

We live out of town. Do we have to become members to attend?

In order to better protect the privacy of our members, yes. However, we do honor memberships to select out of area clubs. Ask!

We're from out of town and would like to join and attend a Love Lounge Seattle event. Where can we stay in Seattle?

We will happily recommend a few of our favorite places. Just shoot us an email detailing what you're looking to do while you're in the area and what level of luxury (or lack of) you seek.

What's the age range of people at the club?

Membership is open to bi-curious and bisexual women or couples ages 21 and over. There is no upper age limit although couples and singles that typically attend are in their 30's to 40's. Some are older, some younger.

How do I make a reservation?

By responding to the email invitation we send to you.

New Horizons
New Horizons was established over twenty years ago to serve as an "on premises" Adult Social Club for people with sexually open attitudes and relationships. New Horizons has been called the most beautiful club of its type in the United States and perhaps the world.

The purpose of the club is to provide a place that is more than a traditional swing club. It is an adult social club; a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe social setting without pressure.

The atmosphere is very casual, friendly and relaxed. The many themed parties offer the opportunity to come dressed based on the evening's theme.

New Horizons is many different things to many different people, however, it is not for everyone.

Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at New Horizons. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Members and guests enjoy the following:

large multi-leveled main dining room
two large dance floors
two indoor and one outdoor hot tubs
large indoor swimming pool
showers
changing area
lockers
video room
conversation pit with fireplace
massage table
outdoor and indoor designated smoking areas
many couples also enjoy sunbathing on the beautiful grounds during long weekend parties.

Play areas include:
many hideaways for couples tucked away in secluded alcoves for the most privacy
a number of bunk style beds which provide some privacy
three large group play rooms: The Arabian Room, The Red Room and The Mirror Room
three frog chairs - which are favorite gathering spots

FAQs

If the party is a themed party, do we have to wear costumes?
There is never a costume requirement. We offer themed parties for those members that enjoy wearing costumes or like to live out certain fantasies. For instance, we have a number of members who love short plaid skirts with white anklets which are popular on Back to School Night. You are always encouraged to wear whatever is most comfortable for you.

Do you have a dress code?
We do not have a formal dress code. Typical dress is sexy casual. We do ask that at least minimal attire be worn in the parking lot and lobby. Wear what makes you feel most comfortable. We do have a few more formal parties each year where most couples typically wear tuxedos and formal gowns. Party descriptions will identify these more formal parties.

Do we have to make reservations?
Reservations are not required for most parties, but we do strongly encourage that you make them. In order to prepare enough food for dinner, we need a good estimate of attendance. Note that it is to your benefit to make reservations for all large parties such as Halloween and New Year's as these parties normally sell out and if you don't have a reservation you will most likely be denied entrance. We have had to turn people away that haven't had reservations.

What are the demographics of your members and a typical party?
We have members of all ages and walks of life. Many of our members fall into the 30 - 50 age range, however we do have members both younger and older than this. We have over 4,000 members so every party will be different. We do have a requirement that all members and guests must be at least 21 years of age. Attendance at a typical weekend party can range from 80 - 150 couples, normally about 110 couples per party. We will see up to 215 couples at a large party such as Halloween.

What is the difference between a weekend and a Wednesday party?
Wednesday parties are held twice a month (usually on the 2nd & 4th Wednesday), they are pot luck, the attendance is typically lower (30 - 40 couples), equal male/female ratios are not maintained, there is no live entertainment, no alcohol of any type is allowed, no overnight stays are allowed and they are over at 12AM. Weekend parties are typically held every weekend (sometimes multiple evenings per weekend), we serve a buffet-style dinner, we strictly maintain an equal male/female ratio, we always have live entertainment (or occasionally a DJ), alcohol such as wine and beer are allowed (hard alcohol is never allowed), members and guests are welcome to stay overnight, and the party ends at 11AM the following day.

I am a member of New Horizons. If my partner will not be able to attend a party, may I attend as a single?
You are welcome to attend a Wednesday night party as a single. For all weekend parties, we maintain a strict male/female ratio. You must always call to make a reservation as a single and you may be placed on a waiting list if space is not available. You must call us to check on your waiting list status- we will not call you. You must have a confirmed reservation before arriving at the party. If you are still on the waiting list, you will not be allowed to entry the party.

We won't be able to arrive at the weekend party before 11PM. Can we still attend the party?
We close the gate and lock the doors at 11PM. If you know you will be arriving shortly after 11PM, contact us so that we can make arrangements for you to be admitted to the club after hours. If you do not notify us in advance, you will not be allowed into the party or onto the premises.

If we leave early or arrive late, do we still have to pay full price?
Yes. We do not give discounts for partial attendance at parties.

If we are staying multiple nights on a long weekend party, can we leave the premises and then be allowed back in?
If you have paid for multiple nights you may come and go as you please at any time during the day. We do keep the gate closed during the day, however you will be allowed back onto the premises. You will need to use the intercom at the gate to call us for entry. Many members enjoy sunbathing, swimming, hot-tubbing and picnicking during the day on a long weekend.
If we are only attending one night of a long weekend party, are we able to come early or stay late (after 11AM) to enjoy the grounds and amenities?
Yes. However we will charge you an additional fee to utilize the facilities during the day.
We would like to bring our RV to a party. Do you have facilities for RVs?
You may bring your RV to any party and park in the main parking lot if you do not require services. We do have a limited number of spaces which have electricity and water. They are by reservation only. We do charge an additional fee to utilize these services.

What accommodations do you have if we want to spend the night?
We have two sleeping rooms available for every party and a yurt available for the larger parties which are all dormitory style. The yurt has its own bathroom and shower. We provide the sleeping pads and you must provide the bedding and pillows. These sleeping spots are by reservation only. If you are interested in reserving a spot, just let us know when you make your reservations for the party. The fee ranges from $5/couple to $20/couple based on which room you prefer. To be courteous to others sharing the sleeping rooms, please refrain from participating in any sexual activity in the sleeping rooms.

What should we bring to a party?
We suggest that you bring an alcoholic beverage of your choice (no hard alcohol allowed) if you want something other than water, coffee, or soda. You should bring a towel for each of you. We do have towels available for rent for a small fee, but our supply is limited and we cannot guarantee that we will have one available for you. You may want to bring toiletry items as we have shower, vanity and hair dryer facilities available. You may want to bring a combination padlock to secure your personal items during the party. We have locks available for purchase at the desk if you forget yours. We do supply condoms in each play area, but you should bring your own if you have a special preference.
I have special dietary needs.

Can I get a different meal than what is being served?
We can accommodate certain dietary needs such as allergies and vegetarian diets. Please see Thom, our chef, in the kitchen before dinner is served. He will attempt to work with you on alternate food items.

If all the sleeping spots are taken, can we still spend the night?
Yes. After 2AM (3AM on large parties), all of the play beds are available for sleeping. If the beds are occupied by couples who are still playing, you must wait for them to finish before you may claim the bed for sleeping.
My partner will be celebrating a birthday. Can I bring in cake and decorations?
Yes. However, confetti, silly string or other small decorations for the table are not permitted.

NWX (Northwest Xchange Club)
(Northwest Xchange Club) NWX is a quality adult 'couples' social club in Seattle area. Enjoy: Cocktail style Dance club setup - BYOB - Hot sets of music - Snacks & Soft drinks provided - Decorated & Theme events - Smoke Fee space. Massage table, and more. Restaurants & Nice Hotels near by. Plenty of easy access parking. Dress: We are a stylish group; suggest comfortable, touchable, clubwear.

NWX is Seattle's friendly, erotic new Lifestyle Couples Club it's a sexually charged atmosphere where you can explore your fantasies in a safe and sensual environment. NWX is for couples who are willing to enjoy others and be sincere, try new things, and occasionally think outside the box. Our intention is to use a classy approach, in which ordinary people will be comfortable. We believe in personal expression and freedom as long as it doesn't impact someone else negatively. Remember, attraction is a matter of chemistry, if the friendship is real and intimate and giving, the sexual part will come naturally.

We want you to have a wonderful experience.

New couples can enjoy a safe, sexy first step.

More experienced couples find others of like mind

to enjoy an equally exciting time.

Develop great social & sexual relationships that become long time friendships. Create fond memories.

You can also have anonymity and test the waters.

We accept and respect your choices.

You will meet fantastic people.

About the NWX Club house: Northwest Xchange Club is "The fun of a dance club with the intimacy of a house party." The largest area is the dance club space; there is an area we are call the 'cozy corner'; and a discrete area for guests to sleep/rest should they not be able to drive safely - or use during the evening.

About Location: NWX is located in an appealing executive business park in the SouthCenter area of Seattle. Our goal is for a place where you can be comfortable. The event address is kept confidential until you ask for a reservation. Then a Welcome - Confirmation is sent. This information will contain the location and directions, info about the facility, the club, theme and more. We do this to help plan best for the events, keep you informed about changes and concepts that we all can share.

Reservations: please include your names.

Email: NWXchange@comcast.net

We have great theme parties! If you have ideas, please email them; we try to include as many of your wants as we can. We really try to tailor our events to what our members tell us they like most. Click Here for the Coming Events Page to see whats happening!!

We recommend coming to a party with a happy, undefined anticipation. This is about fun! Bring your best self, flirt, be sensual and get a charge, dance, socialize, share with others. Compliments and asking interesting questions is a good way to make friends. We welcome all ages over 21, so it's likely you will find couples in your age group. Average attendance is 30-40 couples.

NWX is a little different from atmosphere that is experienced as the hedonistic norm. Our standard is to exhibit generous and considerate behavior, respecting our primary relationships, with a focus on social fun! We support committed primary relationships, not limited to conventional marriage, and we caution against involvements, which distract from those relationships. You need to be D&D free and value good hygiene.

About the Socials: We generally have Saturday night dance parties. Held in nice event space in an appealing executive business park in the SouthCenter area of Seattle. 'Cocktail style' private dance club, themed environ, stylish dress. Large dance floor, great music, and happy energy.

NWX is a Couples' club. Membership information below. Singles may attend only if sponsored by a member couple who agree to be responsible for their guests' behavior.

New to NWX? A well constructed Orientation is emailed upon your first request for reservation as well as a Privacy/Membership document. We ask that you read the Orientation and P/M documents entirely- - We want you to feel comfortable and for us to be all on the same page.

Reservations: please include your names.

Email: NWXchange@comcast.net

$40 - One dance event membership per couple

Singles: $30 admitted : *Single men must have the sponsorship of an attending couple

Admission covers event and membership costs.

Schedule:

7:30 PM to 1:00ish

no admittance after 10:00 unless prior arrangements

NWX provides a comfortable party, dance club atmosphere.
Private, cocktail club-like, clean, decorated, and stylish
Dance, mingle, fantasize, and connect.
Massage table, and Private space.
BYOB, nice snack buffet, soda pop, door prizes

Fun at each NWX Party.

HOT dance sets and no DJ chatter

So, why a dance? you ask. Consider thisIt's Speed Dating for the Lifestyle

Dancing at a Lifestyle dance allows you to meet people in-person before any commitments are made. Keep in Mind: Dance is an excellent form of foreplay and a great way to reach that sexual high that allows a casual friendship to ease into an intimate one. The dancing gets very intimate sometimes....the dance is an excellent form of foreplay and makes it easier for couples to reach that sexual high that allows a casual friendship to ease into a sexual one."

Here is an answer to these and other thoughts about a dance...."Why-a-Dance" (linked to our friends M&M Swingers in Portland Oregon).

Original Circles
Original Circles is a 'members only' social dance club, with dances held the second and fourth Saturdays of every month. In July and December the schedule may be different as we celebrate CAMPOUT! and the Holidays. To see upcoming dance themes and dates, and for information on how to join and attend a dance, checkout our website.

Puget Sound Couples and BiFemales
Puget Sound Couples and BiFemales (aka PSCBF) hosts monthly (get out and meet) functions at public venues (taverns, casinos, nightclubs). Membership is restricted to couples and solo ladies residing in the Northwest (i.e. WA, OR, ID and B.C. Canada). In addition to our monthly GTs, we host a annual picnic and a late summer campout.
Come on out, get acquainted, flirt, and frolic with other like minded adults.

See ya there.

Index of USA Swingers Clubs