SOUTH EAST WI /
KENOSHA--MIDWEST SECRETS-PREMIER ADULT SOCIAL CLUB-LARGE
ESTATE W/INDOOR HEATED POOL
Midwest secrets is a private ON-PREMISE club for couples
and single females
Convieniently located in wonderful South Eastern
Close to the illinois border and Interstate-94
Midwest Secrets ia a 3000 sq ft estate nestled on 4
We are a new age lifestyles club where like minded
couples and single females can meet in a safe secure
social dance club setting
Our guests have a choice of several themed play rooms
Along with the sexy wild in INDOOR INGROUND HEATED POOL
The steamy HOT TUB SPA
And the erotically charged PARTY ROOM and DANCE FLOOR
NO MEMBERSHIP REQUIRED, NO INVITATION REQUIRED,JUST CALL
AND MAKE A RESERVATION :)
All parties are reservation (RSVP) only.
Call 262-880-0300 to make a reservation
A Playful Pleasure
Featuring only the best in
creating an romantic adult atmosphere:located in our
secluded private 5 acre estate. Two dance floors. One
for dirty dancing of mixed music and one for the slow
2 toastie Hot tubs.
Specialty theme rooms for your pleasure with party
The Starry Room with a one of a kind star mural.
The human "munch" bar.
The Passion Box.
The Tea Room.
... and more.
Time to meet that special couple in an atmosphere that
Over night stays for travelers.
Plenty of parking and room for your RV.
Available for private parties too!!
For information on attending a party
email us at: WISPleasures@aol.com
or call (877) 420-4290 as a couple in advance of the
party. We are a couples only club.
The Etiquette of Swinging
HOW TO SAY NO One of the basic etiquette's in swinging
is the right of anyone to say "No." It is the golden
rule. Experience has taught most people that everybody
is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a
situation, however, can lead to ambivalent feelings. The
swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the
right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be
done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an
explanation, because that is what usually causes the
problems. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all
times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever
RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS Beware, not everyone is
comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for
signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed
and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable,
try helping them over the rough spots. Remain polite and
courteous; keep in mind that not all people feel the
same about things.
DON'T BE PUSHY If you are interested in swinging with
someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are
interested, they will respond positively. If they are
not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount
of sweet talk or bulling will change their mind and most
likely work against you.
BE COURTEOUS Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of
insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is
how we all want to be treated - with kindness,
thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In
essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we
ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and
BE FRIENDLY Whether or not you are personally interested
in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you
may share many other interests or you may meet that
person again, and they may introduce you to someone with
whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time. If
you're rejected do NOT take personal offense. Keep the
encounter upbeat and light. Who knows? The person may be
the key to you meeting another terrific partner!
Let your steady partner know he or she is always number
one! Be generous with a kiss and a smile. Touch bases
with each other often, so that you both feel secure.
Always arrive together. Honor any and all prior
understandings, then party on!! Always leave together.
CLEANLINESS is a must. Nothing turns a person off faster
than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you
shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is
always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive
at your destination. It is amazing what the drive
somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or
Respect the guidelines others set, and make your own
wishes and desires clear. There should be No Surprises!
Talk things out BEFORE you get involved.
DISCRETION IS IMPORTANT IN THE SWING COMMUNITY! Who you
see, what you see and what you and everyone else does,
MUST remain private. Never discuss details with anyone
not intimately involved. Promoting the life-style is
wonderful. Publicizing it is unforgivable. Demand
absolute discretion and be worthy of the same.
Themed Events, Food, On Premise DJ
"Scott the Master Blaster of Erotic Tunes". Club 4 Play
has sounds and an Extensive Lighting System to Keep you
dirty dancing all night long. Contests, Drawings, Games,
Large Roman Play Area (Orgy Style) and Semi Private Play
area are ALWAYS included for EACH AND EVERY EVENT. All
Parties Require Advance Reservations Register Online at
the Club Website. We Cater to Both the New and Seasoned
Swinger. We offer Seminars on Swinging and other Erotica
Material. We also can handle all your Travel needs to
Erotic Destinations such as Hedonism, Desire Resorts,
Super Clubs Etc. Club 4 Play has Several Major Events
over the course of a Year. We have the Valentines Day
Toga "Animal House" Party, Our Clothing Optional Bonfire
and Campout in July with Themed Tents, Our Erotic
Masquerade Halloween Ball in October and of course our
Grand Daddy Event The New Years Eve Red and Black Ball.
This Year the Grand Prize Drawing is for (2) 3 night / 4
day Stays at either Hedo II or Hedo III. Hope to see you
at a party in the near future.
Just What Goes On At The Parties?
ARRIVAL TIME 3pm - 5pm
SPECIAL 3:00pm - 6:00pm Get acquainted with everyone on
the staff and some of the regular members that attend
each party. This is our time to get to know one another
and we look forward to answering any questions you have
prior to the others arriving.
5:30pm - New Couples Orientation:
Get acquainted with the Hosts (Thats US) and with the
Other Host Couples
Get any questions answered about the Lifestyle.
Go over some of the Rules and comfort Levels
Choose Your Own Seating
Get the Club Tours
This Is Your Time and We Dedicate this Hour to Your
Needs and Comforts.
6:00pm - Dinner Served Buffet Style. Please Bring A Dish
To Pass. Club 4 Play will provide the Main Dish and The
7:00 - 7:30 Late Arrivals Arrive.
7:30 - 8:00 Introduction and Ice Breaker Games
Introductions are taking place and everyone is getting
into their comfort zone. These are always a good time.
Its allows for everyone to interact in a lite atmosphere.
With no pressures.
8:00 - DOORS LOCK
No more arrivals, (unless prior arrangements have been
8:00 pm - 1:00 am - Dancing and Party Rooms Open
This is a room that is a suite
Both areas are SEPARATE for the people that want to play
or just want
to socialize for the evening without interacting their
first few times out.
The Party Room will have available: Douches,
Cleansing Wipes, Condoms, Deodorant, Hand Lotion and
If you need any other essentials please bring your own
or contact the club if you think we should have
something available for everyones use.
6:00 am - 10:00 am Sunday Morning - Breakfast Is Served
For All Those Who Rented A Room For The Night.
11:00 am - Check - out Time
Club 4 Play - Mission Statement
Club 4 Play Strives to Provide Couples the BEST All
Around Swingers Party Each and Every Month In Wisconsin.
We will provide a variety of themes in hopes to spark
everyone's interests. We will provide On Premise
Swinging as well as a Social Dance Area at Each Party so
that everyone will enjoy an evening out in the lifestyle
whether you are new to the lifestyle or an experienced
swinger. We provide something for everyone.
We value your suggestions and ideas, you are who we
built this site for and with continuous feedback we
strive to improve and keep Club 4 Play the BEST CHOICE
Swing Club in WI for both New and Seasoned Swingers.
phone number is now 608-575-5568
Embrace is an adult off-premise social lifestyle
club based in Madison, Wisconsin.
We cater to people who enjoy venturing beyond what
society considers the 'normal' boundaries of a
relationship. Our goal is to provide an opportunity for
like minded consenting adults to meet one another in a
safe, discrete, and fun environment to enhance their
Our club is young and constantly striving to meet the
needs and desires of those who attend. We welcome your
comments and input on activities you would enjoy!
Couples and Sponsored Singles are welcome at all parties!
Membership is available!
Email us and we will be more than happy to answer your
questions if we can!!
Embrace monthly social events
Embrace is a private club for registered members
ONLY. All members must be 21 years of age or older.
Discretion is highly important to us. To provide the
most protection for our members, we do not provide the
location of our socials until you are verified and
registered to attend. You will receive a confirmation
e-mail with the party location only after registration.
We ask that you not share the location with anyone for
your privacy, as well as the privacy of our other
members. In order to make your experience as enjoyable
as possible, our members must observe all RULES while at
Embrace will sponsor a dance which is
much like a wedding reception. There is typically a cash
bar and appetizers available to the members who attend.
A DJ plays dance music for those who like to dance the
night away, and there will be plenty of tables for our
members to mingle and talk. For members' convenience, we
will usually have a discounted rate on a limited number
of rooms so you can stay overnight if you wish. For
those not staying overnight, please DO NOT drink and
We would like for everyone attending our functions to be
creative and fun with your attire, as there is always a
fun theme for the night. Our only request is that as
you're arriving and leaving our social gathering please
be conscious of those who might find certain garb
offensive. This will help insure safety and discretion
for all of us. Please wear something to cover yourself
in the hallways and other public areas where non-club
members may be present.
After the dance, we may offer a hospitality suite where
you can visit and wind down from the party.
General Hints for Enjoyable Swinging
In the context of swinging, "couples" need not be
married. They should, however, have at least a little
history together and familiarity with each others'
emotional needs, and be comfortable approaching others
as a "couple." The general rule of thumb is that
swinging works best when couples view swinging as an
enhancement to their existing sexual relationship,
rather than as a replacement for a failing one. As one
would expect, good communication is critical in any
attempt at swinging as a couple. There are many, many
different forms that swinging may take, and whichever
one you choose is fine as long as you and your partner
are clear about what you are doing and why. Sex has the
potential to be an emotionally charged area, and the
pleasures that may be found in swinging can generally be
reached only when both partners are sensitive to each
others' needs, and put their partner's comfort first.
From a more pragmatic point of view, there will always
be another party, another personal ad, another dance,
another convention; there may not be another chance to
salvage an exploration into swinging if one partner
becomes overwhelmed in "the garden of delights" and
forgets to treat his or her primary partner with
sensitivity and respect. It's important to keep in mind
that swinging is primarily a SOCIAL activity. The
ordinary social customs of meeting people and initiating
a conversation are really not that different than at any
other type of social gathering, and the process by which
acquaintances become close friends is not that different
either. The key social traits that tend to be
appreciated in the swinging community are responsibility,
friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most
importantly stability with regard to one's primary
relationship. As is the case with almost all human
social endeavors, if you already know people in a
particular community you'll probably be happier if you
attend your first few events with these people so they
can introduce you to others. Waiting a little while and
watching how others behave is also a good idea, as it is
in almost any new social situation. Common courtesy, of
course, is as welcomed in the swinging community as it
is in any other community; After all, we're just human.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What happens at a
A: Our hotel parties are very similar to a wedding
reception. We hold our parties in a banquet room at a
hotel with a professional DJ and lighting system. People
mingle, drink, and dance while they get to know each
other. If anything sexual is going to go on it is after
the dance where arrangements are made on your own. Our
bar meet parties are much like having a group of friends
show up at a bar. You are free to mingle, drink, dance,
and get to know other like minded people. We always
inform the bar owner of what night we will be there. At
both types of party we encourage quests to book a room
at the hotel, for your safety and others dont drink and
Q: What kinds of people swing?
A: All kinds, all ages, all heights, all occupations,
all races, all weights.
Q: What ages attend ClubMadison parties?
A: We have people anywhere from 21 to 50+ attending our
parties, but the majority will be in their late 20s to
Q: What do people wear to these parties?
A: Usually the men wear dress pants or Dockers. Women
dress a little sexier. Think of our parties as a place
to wear things you always wanted to wear but can't when
going out to your normal local bar.
Q: Isn't this cheating?
A: Swingers consider this a lifestyle choice, not
cheating. Cheating is deceiving your loved one. Most
couples swing for the experiences they can enjoy
together, not to find something different from each
other. Only couples and sponsored singles are permitted
to attend ClubMadison parties.
Q: What is a sponsored single?
A: A sponsored single is a person, male or female that
has to come to the party with a couple they know and the
couple will be responsible for them at the party.
Q: Do we have to be a married couple to attend?
A: No. We have couples who are married, couples who
cohabitate, and couples who are just dating.
Q: What if I run into someone I know?
A: You might feel awkward at first, but you are both
there for the same reason. Be discreet. You and the
couple you know have the same things at stake if someone
found out. Remember what happens at a party stays at the
Q: What is the orientation for and about?
A: The orientation gives you a background of how & why
we started this club as well as membership and lifestyle
information. We will give our advice on how to approach
the lifestyle and explain more about what our parties
Q: Are most of the couples who attend experienced in the
A: No. We have several new couples at each party.
Because we have a no-pressure atmosphere people feel
very secure that being inexperienced is very much o.k.
at our club.
Q: What happens if we don't want to do anything sexual
with anyone at the end of the night?
A: That is perfectly fine. We recommend you set your own
pace, take your time. Not everyone "hooks up" at each
Q: Do we have to participate in the contests and/or
A: No. We are a no-pressure club - that goes for all
aspects. The games & contests are just for fun. Just
watching is perfectly o.k.
Q: What kind of music does the DJ play?
A: We really try to keep a variety. We play music from
today back to the 70's. The DJ will always take requests.
We play an equal mixture of slow & fast songs as well.
On premise, parties every Saturday.
Club leasing is available for swingers parties. We are
not a dance club we are an active swing club.
Complimentary soft drinks and hor's'douvres and some
Midwest Secrets Social Club
Welcome to Midwest secrets, a
private ON-PREMISE club for couples and single females.
Midwest Secrets is a 3000 sq. ft. estate nestled on 4
Conveniently located in wonderful south eastern
Close to the Illinois border and Interstate-94
We are a new age lifestyles club where like minded
couples & single females can meet in a safe secure
social dance club setting.
Our guests have a choice of several themed play rooms,
along with the sexy wild in ground, indoor, heated pool.
The hot steamy spa, and the erotically charged party
room and dance floor.
NO MEMBERSHIP REQUIRED, NO INVITATION REQUIRED,
JUST CALL AND MAKE A RESERVATION ; )
All parties are reservation (RSVP) only, call or email
(BYOT)-bring your own towel
(BYOB)-bring your own booze.
On premise club located in the Fox Valley/Oshkosh WI
area holds monthly parties in a relaxed no-pressure
atmosphere. Perfect for beginners and the experienced
swinger alike. These parties are for like-minded couples
and single women. Our guests have an opportunity to
explore their sexual fantasies in this very fun, playful
party atmosphere. Our secure environment ensures that
what happens here is fun, safe and the secrets are
yours. The club provides security, hot and cold hors d'
oeuvres, snacks, and mixers for your drinks (BYOB) Music
provided along with a hospitality and group room. You
must RSVP and be on the guest list to attend the party.
We honor NASCA memberships for out of state couples.
of USA Swingers Clubs