SOUTH EAST WI /
KENOSHA--MIDWEST SECRETS-PREMIER ADULT SOCIAL CLUB-LARGE
ESTATE W/INDOOR HEATED POOL
Midwest secrets is a private ON-PREMISE club for couples
and single females
Convieniently located in wonderful South Eastern
Close to the illinois border and Interstate-94
Midwest Secrets ia a 3000 sq ft estate nestled on 4
We are a new age lifestyles club where like minded
couples and single females can meet in a safe secure
social dance club setting
Our guests have a choice of several themed play rooms
Along with the sexy wild in INDOOR INGROUND HEATED POOL
The steamy HOT TUB SPA
And the erotically charged PARTY ROOM and DANCE FLOOR
NO MEMBERSHIP REQUIRED, NO INVITATION REQUIRED,JUST CALL
AND MAKE A RESERVATION :)
All parties are reservation (RSVP) only.
Call 262-880-0300 to make a reservation
We are Chicagoland's only "single"
friendly club. A club that brings couples together with
select singles, male and female. Alternative Nites is a
on-premise club, hosted by a lifestyle couple. Seeing
the demand for such, we decided to create an atmosphere
that gives the alternative to the traditional lifestyle
clubs. We offer a no pressure party, great for the new
comer or the "seasoned" swingers.
Parties are held once a month on the 2nd Friday...Check
our Dates page for party dates and themes.
Our most important priority is Discretion. No visitor to
our club will ever have the need to worry about their
names being given out. We have added security so you may
attend in complete assurance that any problem will be
dealt with appropriately.
Alternative Nites is a lifestyle facility providing all
the features and amenities you would expect from a FULL
service lifestyle facility. We have a "sports bar"
social area, mirrored dance floor with DJ, 15 play rooms
both private and semi- private and group and bondage
room. 8 Restrooms, 3 showers and a game room complete
with a pool table and a pinball machine.
2002 Windy Clitty Award Winners for
Best On-Premise Club, Alternative Nites
Best Deejay, Ted
Are we as a couple expected to participate?
NO, you are never required to do anything you do not
want to do.
Isn't swinging a " couples only" thing?
To people trapped in the 50's , YES, but this is a new
age and many people choose to explore different things.
We do not condone or promote ANY activity and our club
simply believes that you should have the choice without
being labeled or judged.
Are there more single men than couples?
Never! We allow singles based on the number of couples
that are attending.
What about all the bi and married cheating men?
As with any club, your screening can only be so strict.
We do our best to qualify and eliminate anyone that we
think does not fit in to the path the club has chosen.
What if we are not interested in singles?
A polite NO is all you need to say, it is no different
from being approached by a couple that you were not
Description: Private on premise
adult social club, we host weekly Saturday parties for
upscale committed couples and single ladies at our
beautiful Ranch location. Secluded private property with
a lake, secure parking, friendly and frisky staff. Our
deejays keep you bumping and grinding the night away
within our large, sub level dance floor with fantastic
light show; youre guaranteed to hear the best dance,
urban, salsa and classic grooves to keep you dancing.
Located just 35 minutes South of Downtown Chicago and 5
minutes from the Indiana/Illinois border. Come mingle,
flirt and socialize with other like minded, upscale,
discreet couples within the privacy of our pleasure
paradise. Complete with Social areas, Party rooms,
Heated Pool, Fireplace, Jacuzzis and Adult movies. Every
Saturday night starting at 8:00pm, bring your own
alcoholic beverage and a good attitude; all parties
include dinner buffet, desserts, drink mixers, raffle/contest,
access to our private ranch and Chicagos sexiest couples.
Parties are by invitation only, you must RSVP by calling
(219) 678-8223. We honor NASCA and other valid club
memberships; you must present your valid membership card
Contact: email@example.com / (219)678-8223
Parties are open to committed couples and uncommitted
single females, if you have never been to a Club
Meet4more party, you must call us (219)678-8223 so we
can speak with you both. After we have spoken to you
both, we will add you to our list, and forward you the
party information, and location.
Being sociable is the key to meeting other members; Our
parties are no pressure, and although encouraged, you
are under no obligation to participate in any activities.
We have limited overnight accommodations, so if you're
planning to stay and play between 3:00am - 10:00am the
cost is an additional $20.00 for couples and $10 single
ladies, payable at the door. If you are looking for
nearby hotel's, please scroll down near the bottom of
this page, for the link to area hotels.
Our goal is to provide a safe, friendly and sociable
environment for all who attend, feel free to introduce
yourself to our group of friendly couples, and single
ladies; If you're a bit nervous, we can always do the
honors of introducing you to whomever you'd like to
meet; If ethnic variety, and choice is what you're
looking for, our club is one of the most culturally
diverse groups in the Chicago area, and we provide
various locations to make new friends, create new
experiences, and share special times with other
committed couples and groups. We do not imply or
guarantee that you will experience an erotic encounter
by attending our events, as this is by mutual consent
only. Discrimination, harassment, and drunken behavior
towards any couple, or single will get you banned from
attending all future Club Meet4More sponsored events.
1. Party information
2. What do I wear?
3. What do I bring?
Most parties are B.Y.O.B Bring your own liquor. We
provide Cups, ice, condiments and mixers. No liquor is
sold or provided at Club Meet4More. Your bottled is
labeled and stored within one of the refrigerators or
inside of the liquor cabinet during your visit. When we
depart the social, feel free to take your bottle with
you to the hospitality suite, there is is bar and plenty
of room to store your bottle. Please take it with you at
the end of your visit.
ID is required by both partners the first time visiting
Club Meet 4 More. Drivers License or another picture ID
will need to be presented when entering. This will
confirm that what you have placed on our
application/disclaimer is true to the best of your
knowledge. You must be at least 21 to enter.
The parking area is able to accommodate over 150 cars.
Make sure to lock all valuables inside of your trunk or
out of plain view to discourage perspective car thieves.
Although offered, but not required, you can purchase a
hotel/party package from our hostess during your check
in. This is the BEST cost in the area for similar hotel
rooms. Besides not having to worry about leaving such a
great party, we suggest purchasing a package for the
following reasons, 1. If you're looking for a more
intimate setting, you'll have your OWN room number on
our party floor, this gives you the option to plan your
own AFTER parties with other members/guests attending
the party. 2. If you plan on changing often during the
night, you will have your own private bathroom for the
night..LOL 3.If you plan on drinking, it's the best
alternative to drinking and driving.
Sexy attire is encouraged, always 'dress to impress'.
Wear what you wear at a public nightclub downtown, then
feel free to wear it to Club Meet 4 More.
Many of our parties have a theme or contest, everyone is
encouraged but never required to participate. Club Meet
4 More just asks that you come with an open mind and
free spirit. Looking to dance, make new friends,
socialize and have a great time.
Safe sex is encouraged at all times, but it's a matter
of decision between the couples involved. Condoms will
be available in all of the rooms, but if you prefer a
certain brand, we encourage you to bring your own. Feel
free to use as many as you need while playing in the
party rooms, DO NOT take condoms back to your personal
Parties are RSVP only, online reservations are reserved
for members and non members who've attended at least one
parties. New couples must call (219)678-8223 together
for RSVP information
Parties are designed to introduce new and seasoned
swingers to other consenting couples with similar
interests. Under no circumstances do we promote or
require sexual activities at our parties, as this should
be consensual between all parties involved.
You must be 21 and over to attend, with proper ID
Parties are open to members and their guests only,
everyone attending must fill out our non-disclosure
application their first time attending. This doesn't
make you a member, but it allows you to attend our
We are not responsible for lost, or misplaced items, so
don't bring anything you consider valuable.
No Means No - All parties are open to couples and
females involved in different aspects of the swinging
lifestyle. Ask FIRST before touching, and respect those
who are not interested.
No Illegal Drugs, you will be asked to leave, and
reported to law enforcement.
Drink only the alcohol you purchase.
No drunk and obnoxious behavior will be tolerated, if
you have to get drunk in order to feel comfortable, our
parties aren't for you. You will not be invited back.
All sponsored guests must arrive with the member
sponsoring you, and that member is responsible for your
actions, if we ask the guest to leave, the sponsoring
member must do the same.
Please respect the boundaries, and feelings of your
partner, if he or she is uncomfortable, then say "no,
thank you", or if your partner is ready to leave the
party, you must vacate too.
To respect the privacy of others, No cameras, or
recording devices are ever allowed in party areas, this
includes the use of camera phones, if you are caught
photographing or recording others without explicit
permission from each party involved, you hereby agree to
surrender the illegal device, or prove beyond a
reasonable doubt that that all photos and/or recordings
in question have been permanently destroyed. You will
then be asked to leave, and not invited back.
Our Member's and guests attending Club Meet4More
functions, believe it is within their constitutional
right to assemble.
Weekly theme parties with dances every Saturday night,
and the last Friday of every month have an average of
between 50 to 100 couples. New, inexperienced couples
are always welcome, too. The dance floor, surrounded by
mirrors, with strobes and flashing lights, really
sparkles! There are private parties for Birthdays,
lingerie parties and weekly raffles. Every week there
are door prizes.
Some of the most popular themes include:
Amateur Strip-Tease Contests
Leather and/or Lace
Tight Jeans Night
Best Buns Contests
Sexy Legs Contests
Just A Gigolo Party
Gala New Year's Eve Party every December 31st!!
Overnights are allowed, even encouraged (especially if
revelers have been drinking or have a good distance to
drive). There's an additional charge of $30, and bedding
is provided (also, linens for the bathrooms plus
deodorant, mouthwash and soap). Other club owners are
welcome to visit--at no charge--and occasionally some
Dawn and Dave publish a newsletter six times a year with
upcoming events and interesting stories and jokes.
Although Couples Choice has not hosted any conventions,
many members attend local or national events, such as
Conclave and Lifestyles.
Dave and Dawn do swing at their own parties, which
encourages others to relax and do likewise. (They
consider themselves very much "hands-on managers" and
wouldn't have it any other way!) The hosts and co-hosts
greet folks, show newcomers around, and handle all the
little chores that need doing.
For more information on this Midwest swingers' Mecca,
call Dawn or Dave at (708) 333-4860, or write: Couples
Choice, P.O. Box 2806, Country Club Hills, IL. 60478.
History of Couples Choice
Dave and Dawn met on a blind date arranged by a mutual
friend and lifestyle participant. From the first, their
romance had all the earmarks of a perfect swinging
relationship--the growing love, the deepening trust, the
desire to share sensuality. That was 20 years ago. Today
not only do they still swing...they own and operate
Couples Choice near Country Club Hills, Illinois!
What else do you do, after all, when you get a really
good deal on a second house? You share it with all those
wonderful couples you've partied with over the years!
Dave and Dawn were active in several Illinois clubs
before opening their own NASCA-affiliated, on-premises
swingers' club in February, 1988. When the opportunity
arose, it just seemed natural for Dave to suggest,
"Let's open a party house!" It's located about half an
hour from Chicago's loop (downtown) on two spacious
acres of land. There's ample off-the-road parking, with
security in the lot. Couples Choice is very open and
friendly, not given to cliques.
The club promotes the lifestyle at every opportunity.
Dave, Dawn and their host couples also attend other
clubs just to offer support and gather ideas. The
Couples Choice staff consists of five hand-picked
co-hosts and five DJs--all very loyal, friendly and
Dave and Dawn interview potential members one-on-one on
the club premises, emphasizing the club's no-pressure
atmosphere and no obligation policy. They gladly answer
any and all questions on the club or on swinging in
general. As much as they personally enjoy the lifestyle,
they always point out it's not right for everyone. While
they're fairly flexible about membership, they do reject
all pushy people, unstable couples, and single males
immediately. (Single males are never allowed at club
functions, although single females do occasionally
HIV testing, while strongly encouraged, is not a
membership requirement. Dave and Dawn promote safe sex
both by educating people about their options and by
having condoms readily available. (And education and
example, not coercion, are really the keys to
Cameras are not permitted on the premises, except for
certain special occasions, such as Halloween or New
Year's Eve. There is, also, a couple who does "fantasy"
videos for people with those interests. Discretion
reigns supreme here, as at all bona fide swingers'
Playhouse in Paradise
Quietly tucked away in Chicago's Western Suburbs, Max
and Eva's parties have become a haven for all that enjoy
a private party, with an of a nightclub, and a fantasy
come true. All this can be realized all at one location.
Surrounded by other like-minded committed adult couples,
and single women, Max and Eva's offers parties most
weekends. They are on Saturdays and select Fridays and
Sundays, with various themes. On Fridays, you can come
relax around our Pool Parties, whereas Saturday nights
are host to high energy theme parties, which bring
visitors from across the country.
Our Sunday parties provide a little something for
everyone. Volleyball, sunbathing, or simply relaxing are
the order of the day for our guests on Sundays.
Among our amenities are:
* Dancing to the sounds of a DJ Quality Sound System
*Oak Dance Floor
* An all season heated, in ground sports pool with
* Large Sun Deck available, with an above ground pool
for full body tanning.
* Contemporary building with 5 bathrooms
* Party rooms
* Spectacular Lighting
* 2 fireplaces
* 2 Wonderful Hot Tubs
* On Saturdays, we offer abuffet style complete meal for
your enjoyment -- food until 2 a.m.
* Soft drinks (BYOB)
* Quiet private areas to socialize
* Rooms for your pleasure in a pleasant atmosphere.
There is never pressure to enjoy or participate in
anything that is happening at Max and Eva's, just come
out and enjoy yourself, among other like-minded people
and lifestylers. Please see our reservations section for
details on how you can join us for an evening or two.
Also feel free to check out some other interesting sites
under our links page.
We're looking forward to you coming out to play!
One of the nicest things about our lifestyle is that
most of us relate to each other with understanding,
thoughtfulness, and common courtesy;just as we ourselves
wish to be treated. Think C.S.A.S.C.(Common Sense and
Social Courtesy). If you employ the following
suggestions and adapt them to your own situation, you
should be a welcome participant. Taken from www, Written
by Kenn & Lisa
1. BE COURTEOUS Be aware that this is a lifestyle full
of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is
how we all want to be treated - with kindness,
thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In
essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we
ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and
2. BE FRIENDLY Whether or not you are personally
interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You
never know, you may share many other interests or you
may meet that person again, and they may introduce you
to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to
3. CLEANLINESS Nothing turns a person off faster than an
unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you shower and
perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a
good idea.to freshen up again when you arrive at your
destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere,
stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.
4. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS Beware, not everyone is
comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for
signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed
and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable,
try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you
were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that
things are not working out, remain polite and courteous;
but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people
feel the same about things.
5. DON'T BE PUSHY If you are interested in swinging with
someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are
interested, they will respond positively. If they are
not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount
of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their
mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has
the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without
explanation. Do not ever forget that.
6. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU Do not allow yourself to
become sexually involved with anybody that you are not
interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in
a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in
the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you
want, when you want and with whom you want.
7. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO One of the basic etiquette's in
swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience
has taught most people that everybody is not right for
everybody else. Improper handling of a situation,
however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings.
The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has
the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should
be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an
explanation, because that is what usually causes the
problems and the pain.
8. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS Most of us do not use drugs,
although some of us drink socially. At times, a few
drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging may
hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or
turn other people off to you. If you have to over
indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are
involved in the wrong lifestyle.
9. PRACTICE SAFER SEX It is up to us to protect
ourselves as well as our partners. The use of condoms
should not offend anybody.
10. ENJOY YOURSELF Most important, have a good time, act
out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy
everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm,
laughter and a positive attitude.
The Golden Rule: "NO, Thanks", means NO! Anyone
(yourself included) may say no at any time for any
reason, without further explanation. If you're in a
situation that makes you uncomfortable Just Say No!
Don't jeopardize your joy and satisfaction with the
life-style - or that of your partner, by doing anything
against your will.
Don't submit to guilt or pressure. Swinging is fun. Keep
it that way. Disentangle yourself as quickly as possible
with a firm, but gentle response. Be honest, but
up-front, in order to avoid misunderstandings.
Always be kind. First and foremost. it's the proper,
humane way to behave. Secondly, you may reconsider and
want to party later. Keep your options open.
Everyone has been rejected at some time. If you're
rejected do NOT take personal offense. Keep the
encounter upbeat and light. Who knows? The person who
passes up the goodies today, may want to swing with you
tomorrow, or may be the key to you meeting another
Know your own likes, dislikes, boundaries and strengths,
thoroughly. Encourage and aid others in their own
explorations. Keep relationships friendly and pleasant.
Always propose, never impose! Swingers feel their way
through encounters in more than one way. Open all
channels of communication.
Deal with jealousy head-on! It's a normal, human
reaction. Learn what triggers jealousy in yourself and
in your partner. Then work things out. This may mean
modifying certain activities, curtailing others or
finding new means of sexual expression. Festering
jealousies are destructive. Seek Constructive remedies
as soon as possible.
Let your steady partner know he or she is always number
one! Take time to stroke their ego. Be generous with a
kiss and a smile. Touch bases with each other often, so
that you both feel secure. Always arrive together. Honor
any and all prior understandings. Then Party, Party
Party!! Always leave together.
Use common sense and courtesy. Concentrate on being
kind, thoughtful and sensitive and smile. Happiness is
Respect the guidelines others set, and make your own
wishes and desires clear. There should be No Surprises!
If you're Bi for example ask if the couple or single
you've chosen has a similar interest. Likewise, if you
really object to Greek or Bondage, bring it up for
discussion. Once you're all comfortable with the format,
let the games begin.
Before, during and after you party, pay close attention
to "Body Language." There's more to human interaction
than just sexual signals, but that's definitely part of
the picture. Enhance your romance by considering the
total person. Learn to read the signs and you'll pick up
on what makes your partner comfortable, happy, excited,
and ultimately satisfied.
DISCRETION IS PARAMOUNT IN THE SWING COMMUNITY! Who you
see, what you see and what you and everyone else does,
MUST remain private. Never, never discuss details with
anyone not intimately involved. Promoting the life-style
is wonderful. Publicizing it is unforgivable.
Demand absolute discretion and be worthy of the same.
A Little about us.
We only take Reservations for 50 couples,
Once we are full we are full. So get your Reservation in
If you choose to drink any alcohol please, bring your
own bottle and drink responsibly.
If you choose to use the jacuzzi please,
BYOT (Bring your own towel)
Private AffairsniscReservations call
1-800-355-8063 or 1-815-751-7392
Contribution $50.00 per couple.
Annual membership of $10.00 after the third visit.
Parties are from 8:00 pm.til 3:00 am.unless it is a
special party then times will be posted with that party
Get the facts ask our internet representatives.
Please put PA in the subject line when inquiring about
Non Aol and Aol contact host's
HtFunCpl, Squooshie, Squooshie2000&Nitrochic2000
A reminder for all Members and future Guests of
All parties are BYOT (Bring your own towel),
BYOB ( Bring your own alcoholic or non alcoholic
beverage of your choice ) and remember that because of
local liquor laws we do not supply cups, ice, or mix.
Private Affairsnisc is a couples only club .
We feel that a couples only club is a great place to
meet without having couples come into your home, having
to plan an evening out on the town, or wondering if the
couple you plan to meet will show up at all. We also
know that it can become a hassle planning the time and
meeting place. So we have tried to eliminate all the
worries by establishing our club and opening it to
couples. This gives you and other couples a place and a
time where you can meet and don't have to worry about
who you might run into at the local restaurant.
Attending our parties.
We feel that every couple that attends our parties are
part of our (lifestyle) family. We try to make everyone
feel as comfortable as possible any way that they feel
is best. We pride ourselves in having parties that are
both fun and exciting. We as a club look forward to
having new couples join us. We do not in any way expect
our guest's to participate in anything at anytime. Its
all about meeting couples, making new friends, and maybe
exploring fantasies that might have never become a
We try to accommodate our guests .
We hold our parties 4 times a month every saturday
night. So that couples that have a free weekend can
enjoy the lifestyle as well as meet other couples. We
understand that not everyone has the time every weekend
to enjoy the lifestyle nor have a lot of time in our
hectic daily life of raising kids, working, and having
in-laws. We feel it gives our members a chance to meet
couples that they might never get to.
We have a annual $10.00 membership fee after the third
visit, which is minimal because we feel that you the
couples that attend our club want to enjoy the lifestyle
and the clubs without being hit with a extreme amount
just to attend. Actually this should have probably been
put into the accommodation area but we felt it was a
The Club Release
Club Release is a private on premise Chicagoland
Lifestyle "single" friendly club. Club Release is "Your
single friendly club". We cater to couples and single
females. Our parties have a limited number of (what our
couples consider) attractive, intelligent, respectful,
fun to be with single men. Club Release has parties on
the 3rd Friday of every month.
Our parties are held in an upscale atmosphere. The
building is a private 8,000 square foot fantasy with 15
private/group rooms, 8 bathrooms (3 with showers), 3
social areas. One social area with a bar atmosphere and
another with pool table and dart board. Our dance floor
is a 30 X 30 foot floor with brass pole surrounded by
full length mirrors, and state of the art lighting. We
have the best DJ's playing the best music for you to
dance to all night long.
For your convenience we offer mixers, fountain drinks,
full dinner buffet till 11:00 and after hours munchies
at midnight. The doors open at 8:00 and the party ends
at 3:00. Doors are locked at 11:30. We offer overnights
to Couples and Single females. The only thing you need
to bring is your alcohol and a smile.
Our parties are a no pressure environment. We honor the
anonymity of our guests. Our goal is for everyone to
have a great time and hope they will tell their friends
about Club Release. We want to be your place to go at
the end of the week to relax, enjoy good friends, good
food, and fringe benefits.
We are located 20 minutes south of downtown Chicago and
10 minutes from the Indiana/Illinois border. Come and
give us a visit and bring a friend! Please RSVP to
attend a party.