Iowa's Best Club
What is Club Blackhawk?
Waterloo,Iowa
We are a meet/greet club that meets once a month in a hotel ball room and we are in Waterloo,Ia. If spending the nite and getting a room, the rate is 59.95 + tax. This event is NOT a fuck fest it is a way to meet other like minded people from all walks of live.
By attending a dance you are required to do nothing but come have a good time with us meeting new friends and enjoying the dance floor and music.
We offer a 12 foot table full of food and munchies,we also provide soda and bottled water, cash bar on sight provided by the hotel.
We are very discreet as to who attends and NEVER EVER give out names or your personal infomation, and this info is required from everyone.
(Full Name(s) and a Ph#) for us to release hotel info to you.This is a safe guard for all, even you.
We have dances that get couple mingling with each other(feather dance) and fun games, with lots of laughs and prizes.
We are over a year old and just getting better each month.
We require NO MEMBERSHIP cost so you dont feel that you have to come, cause we WANT you to attend cause its fun.
So come join us in all the fun we have,25.00 per couple/20.00 per single. As always NO means NO,we also have security for your comfort from the outside world.
Send full name(s) and a Ph# to Clubblackhawk@yahoo.com and start having some fun. because we are 2nd to none.
Steve&Cindy.

Club Temptation
Start turning your fantasies into realities at the newest Swingers Club for open-minded couples & singles in Des Moines, Iowa!
Club Temptation parties are usually held in a banquet room at a motel in Des Moines, Iowa. Each party is b.y.o.b. & munchies are provided. We have a professional sound system & lighting for a fun night of dancing.
You must be 21 to attend. All singles must be referred by a couple or have been through an orientation or a phone interview before attending their first party. The orientations are given at 6:00 pm the day of every party. There is no membership fee. Please read our rules.!

Off Nights
Friendly atmosphere! All ages, all shapes, all races & all fun!!! No pressure, monthly parties for couples & single females.
Off Nights parties are held once a month in a banquet room at a motel in the Albert Lea, Minnesota area and are B.Y.O.B. with mixers & munchies provided.
We have a professional sound system & lighting for a fun night of dancing & socializing. Our club is proud of its friendly, no-pressure atmosphere that makes everyone comfortable no matter what your experience is in the lifestyle.
Spend the night getting to know other like-minded people....
chat, socialize, dance, laugh, flirt & maybe even win a prize by entering one of our contests....However you spend the night... we can almost guarantee you'll want to come back again & again & again!!
People attend from all over. People who generally attend Off Nights parties range in age from 21 years old to 50+ at each party.
We usually have anywhere from 80 to 200 people at any given party.

Orientations
Orientations are held before each party in the banquet room....
They are not required to attend but are helpful for those who have never been to a club.

Memberships
Membership is not required to attend any Off Nights parties. An Off Nights membership is good for both Iowa & Minnesota locations. You may join via postal mail, at a party or online through www.paypal.com.

Motel Info:
Exact location given out to registered guests only. We negotiated a special rate for rooms: $41 (plus tax) for a double room. It is up to those attending to reserve a motel room if you wish to have one the night of the party.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What happens at an Off Nights party?
A: Our parties are very similar to a wedding reception. We hold our parties in a banquet room at a motel with a professional DJ & lighting system. People mingle, drink and dance while they get to know each other. If anything sexual is going to go on it is after the dance where arrangements are made on your own.

Q: What kinds of people swing?
A: All kinds, all ages, all heights, all occupations, all races, all weights.

Q: What ages attend Off Nights parties?
A: We have people anywhere from 21 to 50+ attending our parties, but the majority are in their late 20s to late 30s.

Q: How many people attend these parties?
A: Each party is different depending on time of year & event. Parties range
from 100-250 people. Most parties are somewhere in the middle.

Q: What do people wear to these parties?
A: Usually the men wear nice jeans or Dockers. Women dress a little sexier.
Think of our parties as a place to wear things you always wanted to wear but
can't going out to your normal local bar. About ? to ? the people dress
in theme with the exception of Halloween, when about 90% dress in costume for that party.

Q: Isn't this cheating?
A: Swingers consider this a lifestyle choice, not cheating. Cheating is deceiving your loved one. Most couples swing for the experiences they can enjoy together, not to find something different from each other. Only couples and single females are permitted to attend Off Nights parties.

Q: Do we have to be a married couple to attend?
A: No. We have couples who are married, couples who cohabitate and couples who are just dating. We even have couples who started out just dating, got engaged at an Off Nights party, and are now married.

Q: What if I run into someone I know?
A: You might feel awkward at first but you are both there for the same reason & have the same things at stake if someone found out so both of
you will remain discreet you will just have one more person that you know to
talk to.

Q: What is the orientation for and about?
A: The orientation gives you a background of how & why we started this club as well as membership info. & lifestyle info. We will give our advice on how to approach the lifestyle & explain more about what our parties are like.

Q: Are most of the couples who attend experienced in the lifestyle?
A: No. We have several new couples at each party. Because we have a
no-pressure atmosphere couples & females feel very secure that being
inexperienced is very much o.k. at our club.

Q: What happens if we don't want to do anything sexual with anyone at the end of the night?
A: That is perfectly fine. We recommend you set your own pace, take your
time. Not everyone "hooks up" at each party.

Q: Do we have to participate in the contests and/or games?
A: No. We are a no-pressure club - that goes for all aspects. The games &
contests are just for fun. Just watching is perfectly o.k.

Q: What kind of music does the DJ play?
A: We really try to keep a variety. We play music from today back to the
70's. We also play some country & line dance songs. We always take requests. We play a equal mixture of slow & fast songs as well.

New to the Lifestyle?
Below we will tell you what we think works best for couples who are new to the swinging lifestyle. If you have any questions, we are happy to talk with you about them.

Make sure this is what you BOTH want. It will not work if one or the other is talked into it.
Make sure you are secure in your relationship.
Communicate! Communicate! Communicate!
Set your rules ahead of time and stick with them!
Don't show more attention to anyone then you do your own partner, this is asking for jealousy.
Talk a lot with the other couple, don't go into the bedroom without knowing the rules of the other couple or without expressing your rules.
Set your rules ahead of time and stick with them!
Become friends first and not just with one or the other....the men become friends with each other as well as the women after all you are going to be trusting this person with the person you love the most.
Go slow, you don't have to do anything right away and once you do decide to you don't have to do it all. There is "soft swing", that is everything but intercourse. See how you react to that first and go from there.
If you are ever in a situation where you aren't comfortable, for whatever the reason, LEAVE....all of us have had our times where we just weren't able to handle all that is going on, the couple will understand

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