Platos Repeat
About the Lifestyle
Most people have the wrong idea of what a "swing club" is. Many think its just one big orgy where you check your clothes at the door and dive right in, doing anything you want with whomever you like. At Platos, this is COMPLETELY not the case! More than anything else, Platos is a social club where youll meet and form friendships with some of the nicest people youve ever met. In some cases, youll form bonds that will last a lifetime. Heres how it works...

When you walk into a swing club for the very first time, you and or your partner will probably be very nervous. You wont know anyone there, and you might feel like everyone is watching you. Thats a good sign! That means youre normal. Thats exactly how everyone feels their first time!
You might expect a lot when you first come to the club, and thats probably the biggest cause of anxiety for first time visitors. For many men its hard not think about fulfilling all your fantasies about orgies and threesomes involving the man with two women, etc. This can be a huge mistake. As a first time visitor, wives are usually more nervous about the evening, and one sure way to add fuel to that nervous fire is for her to see her husband bouncing off the walls with excitement about jumping into an orgy or looking overly anxious about being with anyone new who is not his mate.
The best way to approach the evening is with only one single expectation, and that is to have a fun time together. For your first visit to Platos plan on having a nice dinner and enjoying the sexually charged dance floor followed by our late night breakfast buffet. This way youll both be completely comfortable, shes not worried about him wanting to dive into the first orgy he sees, and hes not worried about deciding who is worthy of touching his precious wife.

Then one (or a few) of the following things will definitely happen...
At the end of the night after dinner and dancing, you will both go home with each other and after dancing all evening in such a sexually charged environment you will both have the best mind-blowing orgasms during your love-making that youve had in years, probably recharging your sex life and supercharging your relationship and your marriage.

While on the crowded dance floor during one of the slow songs, youre dancing together and an attractive couple is dancing beside you. Her clothes are coming off and you find her body rubbing against yours on the dance floor. You both respond by touching and caressing them back. Then after the song, you disappear into the crowd enjoying the excitement of the nameless pleasure of this slightly sexy anonymous encounter.

You are both so turned on by the evening that you go into one of our many cozy, private rooms, lock the door behind you, and dim the chandelier. Seeing each other in the mirrors that surround you on all four walls, you enjoy great sex together by being in a different place and knowing that right on the other side of the wall, another couple (or threesome, foursome or moresome) is doing the same. In fact you can even hear their sexy sounds through the walls which multiplies your excitement.

You both decide to be a little adventurous. You secure your clothes in a locker and wrap up in two giant beach towels, both provided complimentarily by our playroom attendant. You go to the Jacuzzi where you can enjoy being naked. But being a little shy your first visit, you feel comfortable being in the water where your hands can roam, playing with each other (and maybe others too) under water and not in obvious plain view of everyone, (even though others might be engaged in all sorts of easily viewable activities in and around the Jacuzzi and you).

You both know that you want to see more, but youre not sure about how much you want to participate in. Maybe you feel better enjoying the "Couples Only" lounge area for a while. Then, wrapped in your little security blanket beach towels, you venture into the main "Luvnasium" party room. Over 800 square feet of tropical paradise, a myriad of mattresses covering the entire room, surrounded by mirrored walls with tropical plants, lighting, ceiling fans and naked bodies....lots of them. You dont get on the mattress, but instead you sit on one of the several observation couches positioned so you and easily view all the exciting activities in the room, yet far enough away to accommodate your comfort zone. You feel like youre part of the activities though not needing to participate in them. Its like youre sitting in an adult theater watching the most erotic orgy youve ever seen, except this time it isnt a movie; the action is real and live!
You see the couple you were slow dancing beside on the dance floor. There is room next to them so you spread your beach towels out on the mattress beside them and lay down. You begin kissing and playing with your mate, and after a little while, the attractive girl of the couple beside you gently touches your arm to extend an invitation to touch her back. You respond to her touch not really knowing yet how much touching or caressing will take place, but knowing full well that either couple can say no at any time and set any limits they desire. Maybe the ladies only touch each other while the men each pleasure their own wives. Maybe the men are massaging both the ladies entire bodies...or maybe the ladies are stroking the other man while having sex with her husband. Who knows what might happen this special magical night; its all up to you and those involved with you. Maybe she might enjoy giving you oral sex while her husband pleasures her from behind. Youll be sure to see plenty of that going on here. And maybe youll engage in full partner sharing with a complete exchange of partners. Its entirely up to you and those involved; this is your night, you set your own limits. At the end of the night, maybe you'll exchange phone numbers with this other couple, or maybe you'll just enjoy seeing them at "Your" club once in a while. Remember, it's all up to you.
The Sunday BBQ Parties and the Monthly Internet Parties are good nights to come check out the club and the lifestyle to see what it is like. The Sunday Open House BBQ Parties are very casual and lots of fun. And the monthly Internet Parties are the best, with over 200 couples, about 25% which are first time visitors...so why don't you be one of them? The price is by far the best price for any party. Visit the Membership Page for pricing information.

They're always tons of fun, and they're perfect nights to finally take the plunge and check out the club that at this year's Las Vegas Lifestyle Convention was voted "The Club Most Comfortable For A First Time Curious Couple or Single To Visit". For the third year in a row, Plato's was voted the #1 Swing Club In The Country. And for the second year in a row, voted the #1 Swing Club in the World!
Come to Plato's with an open mind and a desire for fun. You'll make some great friends and have a great time.

Below are a set of rules and suggestions to familiarize yourself with, and the best nights to go to be sure you have the best time possible. With this approach you are certain to have the greatest night of your life.

First, a note to Single Guys:

We appreciate single gentlemen and realize that you play an important role in the swinging lifestyle, so select single males are permitted. "Select" means that you must be clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered. If you're not all of these things then Plato's is not for you. We have some required reading for single gentlemen wishing to visit Plato's.

For the rest, here are The Rules To Live By For A Guaranteed Great Time:
The Golden Rule: "NO means NO". Anyone may say "NO" for any reason at any time even if you are in the middle of a swinging encounter, change your mind, and want to stop it right there! If you are in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say "No". Do not jeopardize your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle, or that of your partner, by doing something against your will just because you are afraid to say no. The friendliest way is to say, "no thank you, but thanks for asking". Be honest initially, and you will avoid any misunderstandings. Dont forget that peoples attitudes change and who knows? Maybe sometime in the future you may meet again with a different opinion.
Always treat one another with respect. After all, this is a party!!!! Besides, you dont want to be rude or judgmental, because you wouldnt want it to happen to you. If a single gentleman talks to you and you are interested in swinging with couples only, that doesnt mean you cant be nice to him. Hes a person just like you! Just politely let him know.
If you are rejected (and it happens to everyone, including women), Do NOT take personal offense. Rejection is a very personal thing, and its almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected. Honesty with each other is crucial. Who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation right.
Deal with jealousy head on! It is a normal reaction. Remember that this is strictly a physical and recreational pleasure, not an emotional one. Discover what triggers jealousy in your relationship and work it out together. It may mean modifying your activities, but your relationship together is not worth jeopardizing over swinging.
Always let your steady partner know she/he is number one. Arrive together, take time to caress each other, and touch base often. It makes one feel secure. And always leave together.
Use your common sense and good judgment when you are involved in a swinging situation. Be kind, thoughtful, and sensitive. Swingers, couples & single guys are people and have feelings too!!!
Honor any and all prior understandings & rules you have made between each other, and be sure to COMMUNICATE with each other openly and honestly so there are no misunderstandings about your rules.
Respect the guidelines you set as a couple and communicate them to prospective partners. Open, honest communication is imperative to forming relationships! And please dont forget to respect the guidelines of others. Dont try to "talk them into" changing the rules because you dont happen to agree with them!
Pay attention to body language. There is more to interaction than words. Consider the body language of the person you are talking with and it will tell you more than the conversation you are having! Be sensitive to the person and you will know what makes them uncomfortable or happy and excited.
Demand absolute discretion! And be worthy of the same. Discretion is paramount in this lifestyle! Privacy is imperative!!! Never, ever discuss details inappropriately. Everything you do and everything you see, MUST remain private. Platos has a saying, "Everything you see here, Everything you hear here, and Everything you do here must remain here when you leave".

Pleasure Palace
This is your invitation to be a part of Tampa's only upscale, on-premises social club.
Over 6,000 members strong, The Pleasure Palace has all the facilities that will make your couples experience a memorable one. From our themed playrooms, to our adjoining bottle club, you will find sexy fun around every corner.
Dance and mingle the night away at Club Illusions. It is the perfect place to meet other like-minded couples. Our friendly bar staff will cater to all of your needs as one of our DJ's keeps the party moving into the early hours.
Later, relax next door in the Pleasure Palace's social area, complete with its own dance floor, which moves to slightly slower and more provocative pace. Mirrors and lighting set an erotic ambiance while private and semi-private rooms let members explore all their desires. Take a dip in the hot tub, or if you are really bad, a trip to the dungeon.
Club Illusions and the Pleasure Palace will stimulate your senses and arouse your desires. Come experience the best of both worlds.

Frequently Asked Questions
Some common questions we often hear:

WHAT IS THE AVERAGE AGE?
Most of our members range in age from late 20s to early 50s. The average age is between 30s and 40s.

HOW MANY PEOPLE USUALLY ATTEND?
The Pleasure Palace has over 6,000 members and still growing.
Thursday nights you can enjoy a relaxing evening with a range of 20 to 60 couples.
Friday nights we cannot actually predict our crowds. We average from 75 to 100+ couples.
Saturday nights are usually the most crowded with anywhere from 75 to 150 couples; sometimes even more.

IT'S OUR FIRST TIME WHAT SHOULD WE EXPECT?
Nothing is ever expected from you. Our members range from first timers to long time swingers. Feel free to move at your own pace in a friendly and comfortable atmosphere. We are all here to meet new friends and have a great time in a no pressure environment.

CAN WE CHECK OUT THE CLUB BEFORE WE JOIN?
You are welcome to tour the club from 8 p.m. to 9 p.m. on operating nights.

WILL OUR NAMES OR PERSONAL INFORMATION BE GIVEN OUT?
No. Any information obtained when you sign up or attend the club is kept confidential. We will never contact you by mail or phone. The only info we keep on file is your email address so that we may send you info on weekly theme parties and events.

WHERE ARE YOU LOCATED?
We are located at 8504 E. Adamo Dr. (also known as SR 60), at the east end of Tampa, near Brandon. If traveling from I-75, take the Brandon (60) exit, heading west approximately 2 miles. From I-275, take the Hwy 301 exit, heading south to SR 60. Take a right and we are located less than a 1/2 mile on the right. The front entrance reads "Private, Members Only."

IS ALCOHOL ALLOWED?
No. Alcohol is not permitted on the PLeasure Palace side of the premises due to county ordinances. Beverages, including sodas, water, and coffee are provided. You can drink at Club Illusions which is conveniently located in the same building as the Pleasure Palace. It is BYOB with a small cost for your set ups.

ARE SINGLES ALLOWED?
Select single men are welcome every night. Management reserves the right to turn away single men at the door if there is an overabundance in attendance. Single ladies are always welcome. Proper etiquette is always expected. On Saturdays, single males are allowed in the hallways and entertainment area, as long as the single males rules are followed. This policy can change at any time if we should have a large number of complaints from our couples. Single males will then be limited to a certain part of the club only. This policy is strictly enforced!

IS THERE A SEPARATE FEE FOR EACH CLUB?
If you pay to enter the Pleasure Palace, then you are provided complimentary entry into Club Illusions. However, if you would like to attend Club Illusions only, you may do so. You can find all our pricing information on our rates page.

PROSTITUTION, WEAPONS, DRUGS, VIDEO OR AUDIO TAPING IS NOT ALLOWED. NO INTOXICATION, DISORDERLY CONDUCT, OR HOSTILE BEHAVIOR ON THE PREMISES.

Ranch 4 Play
Welcome to the Ranch
RANCH 4 PLAY is situated on a 5 acre site in a peaceful, wooded site 30 minutes from Orlando Florida.
As a guest of RANCH 4 PLAY, you will have access to the cleanest on-premise, private, swingers party in all of central Florida. Guest will be given a friendly tour of our 5000 plus square feet of party areas by our hostess. A complimentary buffet is prepared nightly for your dining pleasure.
RANCH 4 PLAY is a Florida Swingers Paradise Club located in sunny Central Florida within 30 minutes of most Orlando, Sanford, and Daytona, Florida tourist attractions.
Our on-premise, swingers club parties are held on Friday 8:00:p.m. till 2:30 , Saturday, Pool party starts at 2:00 p.m. til 7:30 p.m. Night party starts at 8:00 p.m. 3:00a.m. Discretion is assured.
RANCH 4 PLAY has earned the reputation of being the cleanest on-premise private swingers club located in Central Florida. Our amenities are second to none. We are noted as one of Florida's finest swinger's club.
As you browse our site you will see why RANCH 4 PLAY is one of Central Florida's best on premise swinger club's in the Florida area. We keep our guests coming back time and time again.

Give us a call. (352.483.1988) or E-mail Us at Ranch4Play@hotmail.com
Your Hosts
Gene & Darlene.

Lifestyle Friendly Hotel
Clothing Optional Hotel minutes from Haulover Beach and Adult Clubs. Parties here now on Saturday nights.
Come enjoy the Sun, Pool, and Roof Top Bar in our "Clothing Optional" environment. Always a fun, friendly place to "Meet and Greet" those in "Alternative Lifestyles"

Sinful Party
Sinful Parties
The Premier Theme Parties for Couples and Single Ladies that we host across the country.
Our parties are really quite simple. We believe that a really good party is all about the ladies.
We keep our parties low in cost to get you in the door.
Sorry No Single males allowed at these party!
Thank you and we hope to see you there.
Sinful Party Administration.
Contact us if you have any questions about our parties at info@sinfulparty.com or visit www.sinfulparty.com for more info.

Swingers Hotel Party in tampa
We throw a hotel party in the tampa ares for couples and females. This is held in a suite of a hotel. There is two bedrooms to the suite no more then 12 couples at one time. we have had fun doing this In cali now we are here in tampa doing it for you. Please contact us at the web site.

The Bliss Club
::: ABOUT THE BLISS CLUB :::

The Bliss Club produces events exclusively for exceptional young (18-39), fun, attractive, open-minded, sexy, women - single and w/ male partners.
We strive to create a fun and friendly environment where young women can meet others with similar curiosities and interests.
Our erotic theme events allow female guests to be daring and adventurous and to dress provocatively in creative and sexy costumes in a safe and secure environment of an upscale night club. We also organize group vacations, bar meet and greets, and special events.
Male partners are always expected to be polite, respectful and sensitive to the needs of our female guests understanding the focus of our events is always on the ladies. We do not admit unescorted single men.

The Erotic Arts Society
We are a private european lifestyle facility promoting a sex-positive culture. This upscale private membership club is for single women, couples and select single gentlemen. We have 2000+ square feet of sensual and seductive surroundings without the pressures or hassles.

ALL PLEASURE ATMOSPHERE
"Your pleasure. Our passion."
TEAS, short for "The Erotic Arts Society", is an on premise european style sex club in Sarasota, Florida that specializes in catering to couples. It is a large house on 3 beautiful acres conviently located near interstate I-75. The property is set up explicitly as a sex club. The interior is designed to enhance your mood and excite your senses with a "Bordello" style in classic reds, deep golds, black leather, ornate mirrors and erotic art.
The very large group room is covered in luscious dark merlot and gold sheers, column lighting, a love swing and of course sitting areas to watch the activity.. We even have a beautiful mediteranian blue greeting room with a large white sectional for new or shy couples or just a space to relax and talk, away from the activity. You first enter into the mirrored dance area with rotating colored lites. This areas also has a seperate sound system with great dance music and a brass Strippers pole for the adventurous dancers to play out their fantasies. But "Behind the Green Door" anything goes! You then enter into the locker area (bring your own locks) where you can store your personal items. This adjoins the bar where "byob" is the rule.
All setups are free. A free appetizer buffet is provided all nite with snacks and finger foods to keep your energy up.
Every room is wired with music playing erotic sounds like Sade, Enigma, Govinda, and others to promote a soft sensual atmosphere that can be enjoyed while at the same time having an alluring conversation with others. Our "Voyer" room (or exhibition room depending upon your position) is a great mood setter with ceiling and walls all in black drapes around a large wall to wall bed under dim string lites and black lite all shrouded by sheers, so everyone in the main room can share visually in the pleasures.
There is also a mirrored private/semi-private room with a king size electric bed that adjusts to many accomodating positions and even vibrates.
Our enclosed patio room is set up comfortably for those that need to smoke, as the main house is smoke free. Our brick deck is loaded with comfortable patio furniture, a large hot tub and tiki torches all nestled under beautiful sprawling oak trees for those of you who like making love under the stars or just good old jungle style animal sex.
And all through the house you will find lots of beautiful erotic art accented by lots of soft candle lite.

We've worked very hard to provide a warm, sensual, cozy, upscale atmosphere which allows you to feel safe in pursuing your wildest fantasies. If you need anything or want help to meet that special couple, or help to locate someone to fulfill those special needs and desires, just ask one of our friendly, attentive hosts and hostesses.
Sincerely, we hope to share our unique, lusty, romantic and sexually charged atmosphere with you soon. Our pleasure will be for you to want to bring your friends back with you next time.
"Your pleasure. Our passion."
Thanks
T
Directions to the club will be provided upon making a reservation. For information on a membership please contact us at Info@TheEroticArtsSociety.com

The Partyhouse
AN ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE CLUB
Where good people come together to make new friends.
The PartyHouse is a private home located on 5 acres shaded by many oak trees in a country setting. It is a place to meet and enjoy new and old friends.
We are located between Orlando and Tampa. We offer weekly events and theme parties with contests to join in throughout the year.
Pool Parties are planned for the holiday weekends.
We offer a large hot tub, swimming pool with a wrap around decking, large gazeebo with a conversation area, sound system for dancing or just enjoying the music with friends. All for casual socializing and relaxing. Private lockers with restrooms and showers.
Party Days and Time
Alternative Lifestyle Parties for couples and select singles are held every Friday and Saturday night starting at 8 Pm. Ladies and new swingers are welcome. Please give us a call between noon and 9 PM for more information and directions: 863-853-7750
or e-mail us at Partyhouse14051@aol.com

The Playground
The Playground is a place for swingers to have a fun time, located near the New Smyrna Speedway just 20 minutes south west of Daytona Beach near Jax, Orlando and all of north and central Fl.
Our on-premise, swingers parties are held every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday night 9pm till 2:30 am . Discretion is assured.
The Playground has earned the reputation of being one of the cleanest on-premise private swingers settings located in Central Florida. We are noted as one of Florida's most exciting & fun swinger's party.
Please call if you need directions: (386) 426-2063 or E-mail Us at Playgr0und@AOL.com
The Lifestyle
What is Swinging?
Swinging is social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating. It may be defined as recreational social sex. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome. Though single men and women are involved, it is primarily an activity of couples.

Who the Swingers Are
People who swing come from all economic levels. Every job classification, all races and nationalities are represented, though the majority are Caucasian, middle to upper middle socio-economic class, and married. Swingers, married and single, tend to be adventuresome, emotionally mature, and have excellent relationships with their mates and friends. Single people are involved in swinging but not to the extent of couples. Many single women have joined swing clubs, finding them a refreshing alternative to the traditional bar scene.

Couples in Swinging
Swinging is "the recreation" for couples whether they are married, committed (having an ongoing emotional commitment), living together (co-habitating, with or without an ongoing intimate relationship) or single couples who date. A study of swinging couples (McGinley, 1979) reported increased enjoyment and satisfaction in the relationships accompanied by a better understanding of self and mate, greater intimacy between the partners and a decrease in sex role playing and sexist expectations.
Swinging enables a couple to explore sexual and social feelings and needs together, permitting a demystification of sex which allows sex to assume a place in the relationship unhindered by the standard ties to love, duty, sex roles and morals of others.

Women in Swinging
It is certainly an understatement to say that the role of women in our society has greatly changed over the past several decades. The humanistic and womans movements have had an impact on sexuality also. The number of women choosing involvement in swinging during the past few years is remarkable. Sexual and social assertiveness on the part of women at swing parties and other swing activities is not only acceptable, it has come to be expected.
To openly be oneself without fear of seeming unfeminine is a delightful experience for a woman and a welcome experience for the man. Swinging provides the environment to alter sex-role playing for both sexes, allowing men and women to participate with each other in a uniquely human experience.

Men in Swinging
Whether married, in a relationship or single, swinging can be a wonderful experience for a man. Not surprisingly, most women who are into swinging were introduced to the lifestyle by a man in their life. Also not surprising, many men would swing if only they could. They are hindered from the experience by their marriage, or if single, their inability to find a woman for a swinging partner. Of course, guilt feelings about sex and pleasure, and sex roles, also hinder men from swinging.
Men are not the macho, always ready, self-reliant persons of fiction. They are as human as their female counterparts. They experience loneliness and fear rejection. A man, on convincing his wife to try swinging, may experience unexpected jealousy and a feeling of loss when she walks hand in hand, partially nude and obviously excited, toward a bedroom with another towel-clad man. He had fantasized himself in swinging but had not comprehended the reality of his wife or mate swinging.
As with women, the experience of swinging can be growth producing for a man. It alters forever traditional concepts of man-woman relationships with sexist overtones. Through swinging, a man can experience a great deal of pleasure.

What is a Swing Club?
NASCA defines swing clubs as any organization, formal or informal, which exists to provide swinging activities. Swing clubs exist in a variety of forms. These include Swing Clubs, Party Houses, Circles and Socials, Bars and Cocktail Lounges and Contact Services. All but the contact services may be on-premises or off-premises. Contact services work through the mail or telephone and rarely provide swing parties although they may promote group travel. Parties given by on-premises swing clubs may have from ten to sixty or more couples, though twenty to forty couples is the common average. On-premises means that sexual activity occurs at the party. Off premises swing clubs, cocktail lounges and bars help you to meet other swingers. Swinging will be elsewhere with the interested couples and singles responsible for the arrangements. The arrangements include who is to be invited, the location, date and time.
The on premises party offers a wide possibility of social interaction, selection, potential of swinging with others in a foursome, threesome, one-on-one, or in a group scene. Bisexual as well as heterosexual swinging is possible, principally among women. And the club on-premises party offers this without pressure in a structured environment. Private, semiprivate and group rooms are generally provided to meet the desires of virtually everyone. Heated pools, Jacuzzis and hot tubs may be available to accent the social environment.

What is a Swing Publication?
Swing publications serve the swing community by publishing personal ads.
Many also publish photos of the advertisers. A few carry ads only. Most offer articles about swinging and sexual behavior. Personal ads offer a form of swinging that many find exciting. The placing and answering of ads is a swing activity in itself. It is exciting to open a letter describing a new couple, perhaps with photos. Socially meeting someone following an exchange of letters, photos and phone calls, with the possibility of swinging, is considered the height of swinging pleasure by many.

What is Sex in Swinging Like?
The actual sexual activity of swinging is varied. Though important, swinging is rarely centered around the orgasm but on the various pleasurable acts that lead to orgasm. Once on a bed, the participants will generally begin with kissing and caressing each others body. Both the womans and mans nipples are favorite places of fondling, sucking and gentle nibbling, followed by licking and kissing around the genital area, then the genitals directly. Most develop techniques they feel pleasure their various partners.
Sixty-nine or mutual oral-genital pleasuring is popular. Either partner may masturbate the other, and vibrators may be employed, especially in group swing scenes such as in the swing clubs group room. These activities may be intermixed with intercourse done in a variety of ways. Anal sex is popular with some swingers. Bisexual swinging is more common among women than among men.

FAQs
RELAX and GET ACQUAINTED
When at a swing party, you are there to have the best of times and to share the uninhibited enjoyment associated with those who have discovered a new dimension in their lifestyles. Once you have become familiar with the surroundings and staff members or host/hostess, try to become as at ease as you would be at any other social gathering. Don't hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people. You'll find them eager to welcome you and to help you blend into their circle of sincere camaraderie.

SOME TIPS ON ETIQUETTE
While you are advised to be congenial and outgoing, don't be "pushy". Many couples who are new to "swinging" often have unrealistic expectations and are not prepared to handle rejections that may sometimes occur. Freshly showered, perfumed, and neatly dressed people make more contacts. Don't let your personal physical idiosyncrasies stop you from having a good time. No one is perfect [although it is common for new "swingers" to see others as more attractive or more verbal as themselves]. Don't let your own mind be your worst enemy. Be prepared to handle rejection but don't take it personally. It is important to remember that

JOIN THE CONVERSATION
Some people will probably "break the ice" by introducing themselves, along with other couples they know. It's their way of making you feel at home. Feel free to join their conversation and you'll find that most of them will be happy to answer any questions you may have about the "swinging" lifestyle. Be open and honest. Tell them that you are new to "swinging" and you'll discover how helpful people can be.

Etiquette In Swinging
(Common Sense and Social Courtesy)
All of us want to be successful as swingers. It doesn't matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style we swing. One of the nicest things about our lifestyle is that most of us relate to each other with understanding, thoughtfulness, and common courtesy; just as we ourselves wish to be treated. Think C.S.A.S.C. (Common Sense and Social Courtesy). If you employ the following suggestions or adapt them to your own situation, you should become a welcome participant.

1. BE COURTEOUS
Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and Silver rules.

2. BE FRIENDLY
Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.

3. CLEANLINESS
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.

4. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS
Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.

5. DON'T BE PUSHY
If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.

6. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU
Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

7. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO
One of the basic etiquette in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.

8. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS
Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Overindulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.

9. PRACTICE SAFER SEX
It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.

10. ENJOY YOURSELF
Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.

Trapezeclub.com
The world's famous on-premise Ft Lauderdale swingers club sizzles with non-stop hot and erotic excitement Wednesday through Sunday night. It's the most talked about club in the country, the model that other clubs try to fashion themselves after. Our upscale amenities include: gourmet dinner buffets, valet parking, 3 full service bars, dancing to a live DJ, large open play rooms, private rooms, lockers, towels and locks provided, hot tubs. Magnificant ambiance with attractive couples and single women.

TRAPEZE, 3660 W. Commercial Blvd, Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33309. (954) 730-8121. Hours:Wednesday and Thursday: 8:00 PM - 4:00 AM, Friday and Saturday: 8:00 PM - 5:00 AM, Sunday: 8:00 PM - 3:00 AM.

VenusParty
Venus Party is an erotically charged party exclusively for fun, attractive, open minded, sexy couples and single women from around the world providing an atmosphere of temptation by surrounding you with beautiful people, seductive music, and erotic energy that will add spice to your life and turn your wildest fantasies into reality. Whether you are visiting or are presently residing in South Florida, nowhere else will you find a guest list of more intellectual, cosmopolitan, and genuine people than at Venus.

About Us:
Venus was formed because of a demand for an upscale, private, more exclusive erotic party. A friendly no pressure atmosphere allows everyone to feel as comfortable as they wish. If it is generating a conversation with other guests, participating in erotic fun, or just taking it all in, you will never feel pressured.

Guests:
Guests at Venus are predominantly between the ages of 25 and 45, with exceptions above or below, and consist of couples and women only. NO SINGLE MEN. The number of guests is inconsequential, for all Guests in attendance are always attractive, fashionable, and physically fit.
At Venus, there is never any pressure, expectation, or stress. Guests are intelligent and understand they are part of an extraordinary experience. They respect and appreciate those around them and are perceptive to the softest "no".
Venus reserves the right to refuse any couple or single women for approval. NO SINGLE MEN!
Venus is the place to express yourself, so dress code is sexier the better!
At VenusParty, all guests must act responsibly. NO DRUGS!!! Fun is the rule for our guests. We reserve the right to have any guest immediately removed from our party if rudeness or irresponsible behavior is observed to impact other guests.
Venus reserves the right to refuse any couple or single women for approval. NO SINGLE MEN!
Venus is the place to express yourself, so the dress code is sexier the better!
At VenusParty, all guests must act responsibly. NO DRUGS!!! Fun is the rule for our guests. We reserve the right to have any guest immediately removed from our party if rudeness or irresponsible behavior is observed to impact other guests.

Women:
Our VenusParty revolves around our female guests who set the limits to all activities and it is important to remember that they are in charge. Our "Venus" can dress and flirt provocatively in daring and creative costumes while feeling secure in our private setting, whereas regular nightclubs inhibits her with consequences

Men:
Men at VenusParty are attractive, fun, and always parallel their women. Gentlemen are expected to be charming, engaging, and chivalrous. A woman at Venus is assured a man will not touch her without her verbal consent. To be in the company of sexually confident women is a pleasure unknown to most men. All men must be fully aware of the trust the women extend them and must maintain that trust.
Venus is not for everyone. Venus is not a "club" and admission is not open to everyone. Each prospective guest is interviewed by a body of associates for Venus, to ensure the high expectations of the group. VenusParty is about quality and guests attending are here by invitation only. VenusParty strives to develop a following of exquisite people for an uncompromising experience.
Venus Party is hosted within a Private Home directly on the beach with a breathtaking view of the Ocean. VenusParty sells nothing; you are our guest and financial support for VenusParty is strictly through donations. Upon receipt of your invitation, you will be sent donation information. After your donation has been confirmed, you will receive directions to VenusParty.
For your convenience, we now accept credit cards for advance reservations. This can be included in your return invitation email. If your donation is not received online prior to the event date and you still wish to attend, your required donation will be greater and must be made off-site prior to attending VenusParty. Call 954-461-0774 for instructions.
At no time is money accepted or kept on premises at the party. Since attendance for our Parties are limited, we cannot offer refunds once a donation had been made. However, we do offer Rain Checks.
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FAQs

Q: How many guests are invited at Venus Party?
A: Those attending Venus gravitate toward good company and are not contingent upon numbers. This is our philosophy setting Venus and events like it apart from those other "clubs". People consumed with the need for large crowds can find many other venues. However, it is very difficult to find a place where the guests are as thoroughly screened as at VenusParty. So the choice is yours---

Q: What is the Philosophy of VenusParty?
A: Hosting. We bring people with similar interests, and backgrounds together for an unforgettable experience. Our Parties are not based on large crowds or gimmicks, they flow through introductions, conversation, and comfort. When the atmosphere and people are the same caliber, great things happen.

Q: Who are the Hosts for VenusParty?
A: Venus and Chris; we have been married almost seven years and are honest, friendly and have extermely high standards when it comes to sexuality and relationships. We encourage guests to enjoy themselves and live their fantasies! We live the Lifestyle and devote our time exclusively to making events of this grandeur available to you.

Q: How provocatively may we dress for VenusParty?
A: Let your imagination and libido dictate. High fashion, club gear, fetish/fantasy... VenusParty is the rare occasion you may wear what you've only dreamed of wearing anywhere else. Venus encourages creativity and originality. Erotica, playfulness, decadence, and elegance are commendable.

Contact Us for Information or Request an Invitation By Email at info@venusparty.com or
By Phone at 954-461-0774.

West Central Coast Couples
Join WCCC &for socialising, dancing and meeting new couples for hot, erotic, adult fun.
For more information please see their website.