Lifestyle Club is
a private membership only Missouri and Illinois Adult
Entertainment Social Club where adults can have fun and
Offering Free 1 Year Memberships!
Everyone one is welcomed to the Lifestyle Club
regardless, of your
marital status, sexual orientation,weight, height,
color,race, religion and
etc. However, one must be 18 years of age and be
Lifestyle Club was formed for the following reason:
To have adult fun,
liberate oneself and to be apart of something that is
others of like-minds and interests.
Passions of St. Louis
Couples Only Lifestyle Club
Club 64 East, the only "on-premises" couples club in the
St. Louis Metropolitan area. Couples party every
Saturday night. Located just 5 miles from downtown St.
Louis. Take I-70 East to I-64 East, exit right on St.
Clair Avenue we are 1/2 mile on the left.
Telephone: (618) 875-0221
4-SPC is an off premise club, for couples only. We are
located in the corner of all
4 States Missouri, Oklahoma, Kansas & Arkansas. It is
BYOB, we provide the snacks & soft drinks. It is a very
relaxed atmosphere, and the couples are great!
Our party's are on the 4th Sat of each month unless we
have to work around a Holiday like Thanksgiving, our
December party is always on the 31st (NYE) We never give
out the exact location over the net to insure the
privacy of our members. We always speak with each couple
over the phone to make sure they are a real couple, I'm
sure you understand that, you just never know on the
internet. This protects both you and our club members.
So if you are still interested email us and give us a #
where we can speak with both of you and we will be glad
to give you a call, without a phone call we can not
approve your membership to our club site or give you any
club info. We will always be very discrete.
Eden of Kansas City
Club Eden is a private event held
at a local nightclub in an upscale hotel. Our events are
for discriminating couples who either practice a
swinging lifestyle or are curious, open-minded and enjoy
dancing and socializing in a sensually-charged
atmosphere with no pressure. Couples and single females
only. At least one event held per month. Live DJ. Cash
bar. Hotel rooms available at special rate. Membership
not necessary, but you must reserve to be invited to
each event. No walk-ins.
CSR is a lifestyle organization
dedicated to Alternative Lifestyles, specifically
Swinging. Dances are held once a month at a hotel in the
greater St. Louis area, with a party area afterwards on
a private floor of the hotel.
Couples may visit a CSR function upon meeting one of the
three following criteria:
Arrange for an interview with CSR staff at a mutually
convenient casual restaurant.
Present proof of a membership at another Lifestyle club
from a different geographic area (NASCA members
Be invited by a CSR member in good standing.
Memberships are subject to the following terms and
Membership fee for new couples is $40.
Renewal fee is $25. (Renewals are free if a member
couple attends five dances in the previous membership
Dance fees are $35, with cash bar at the dance, munchies
and refreshments after the dance.
Dance times are:
Doors Open 7:00 PM
Dance 7:30 - 11:30 PM
Hospitality Suite 11:30 - 3:00 AM
CSR functions are held at a local hotel near the airport.
All rooms are booked throuth CSR, and requests for
specific room configurations (e.g. two queen beds) are
filled on a first come, first served basis. There are
only a small number of double-queen rooms, so if a
reservation is not received early we may not be able to
accomodate a request. Also, if a membership is late,
your room might not be in our main building, so be sure
to make your reservations early!
A membership application is required of all members. All
information provided CSR is confidential, and will not
be shared with anyone. Should a member contact CSR staff
to contact another couple (e.g. a telephone number is
lost), we will contact the other member and pass along
the message. At no time, under no circumstances, will
CSR divulge information about any member to anyone other
than CSR staff
What/Who is CSR?
We are a couples organization that provides a social and
recreational atmosphere where couples can meet and share
in the friendliest of atmosphere, completely free of any
pressure. This sharing includes conversation, friendship,
good times, and of course, a caring atmosphere where
exchange of sexuality may be accomplished with
absolutely no pressure or negative connotations.
Is CSR different from other clubs?
There are thousands of lifestyle organizations across
the world today. Many operate like bars or other party
clubs while restricting access to Lifestyle Members.
CSR is different, however, in that we are a Lifestyle
organization first, and a party place second. We feel
that is much more important for our Members to be fully
acquainted with the Lifestyle, especially when they have
no prior experience.
Meeting this goal is the reason we do interviews,
ensuring that prospective members have every opportunity
to ask questions of an experienced Staff couple before
committing to an event..
Code of Conduct
Standard rules of etiquette and social behavior shall
prevail at all times. Respect, Dignity, and Discretion
is the motto and foundation of CSR - Qhat is seen, who
is seen, and what is heard is and must always be kept in
the strictest confidence. No one shall be allowed to
engage in illegal acts, including the possession or use
of any illegal drugs or substances. Additional Etiquette
guidelines may be found here.
It is our policy to meet with couples interested in
joining CSR to answer any questions, discuss policy,
jealousy, discretion, etiquette, or any other issues
that may arise. Aside from the informative role
orientations play, couples get a chance to meet the
staff of CSR.
What is a Social?
A social is a dance/party. Socials are always on a
Saturday night, and provide a social setting in a
non-threatening environment where couples can meet,
socialize, and seek compatible relationships. Many
swingers find dancing to be an excellent bridge between
the social and sexual aspects of swinging, allowing
couples to determine their compatible interest(s). The
dance is a closed environment, where only member couples
are admitted to the room, and security personnel will be
on hand to ensure privacy. After the dance/party, a
social area is provided in the form of a hospitality
suite or area, however couples are always free to seek
entertainment in the privacy of their own rooms at any
time. No swinging takes place at the dance, and no
swinging takes place afterwards unless arrangements are
agreed upon between the couples involved.
Lifestyle is defined by Webster as an individuals way of
life, and alternative is defined as providing a choice
between things. Alternative Lifestyle represents couples
who believe that sexual freedom of expression between
consenting adults is highly gratifying. For couples
contemplating the lifestyle, a considerable amount of
thought and discussion must take place between you and
your mate. Please understand that this lifestyle is not
for everyone - your relationship and attitude must
contain stability, openness, and sexual honesty before
entertaining an alternate lifestyle. Our lifestyle is a
viable alternative to the traditional monogamous,
pair-bonded marital relationship. It is a lifestyle
whereby two people can enjoy the benefits of a
monogamous marital relationship and still recognize and
enjoy the need for polygamous social-sexual recreation.
If you are a couple interested in expanding these
horizons; have a solid relationship with open lines of
communication; are ready to discard petty jealousy and
possessiveness; are committed to maintaining your
existing relationship yet feel the desire to expand your
social-sexual activities together - you are ready for an
Alternative Lifestyle, but remember, complete openness
is a must! This Lifestyle is a fantastic and pleasurable
experience, and is for anyone who wants to share in the
friendship and sexual pleasures of others of the same
Swinging is a term used consistently among members of
our circle. It is usually defined as choosing a partner
who is not your mate to engage in social, recreational
sex for the mutual satisfaction of all involved. Within
the definitions given above there are several variations
of swinging activity, but in every case swinging is a
couples recreation. Swingers may engage in (1) twosomes,
(2) threesomes, (3) open swinging, , (4) closed swinging,
(5) group swinging, (6) bisexuality. In every case, the
spouse or partner of the participants, if not mutually
engaged in the activity, is most often on the premises.
Do not confuse swinging with playing around or having an
affair. Swinging is an open relationship with others of
the same lifestyle, and both parties always know what
pleasure their mate is experiencing - nothing is hidden.
Definitions: 1. Twosome - one male and one female
engaged in sexual activity. 2. Threesome - a couple and
a third party (extra male or extra female) mutually
engaged in sexual activity. 3. Open Swinging - two
couples (two men and two women) engaging in sexual
activity in the same room at the same time. 4. Closed
Swinging - two couples (two men and two women) engaged
in sexual activity in separate rooms on the same
premises simultaneously. (One couple in bedroom A, one
couple in bedroom B.) 5. Group Swinging - sex with
multiple partners for the sheer pleasure of the
experience. 6. Bisexual - adults capable of enjoying
sexual activity with members of their own sex as well as
members of the opposite sex - much more common in the
Lifestyle between females.
Why do couples swing?
It is an old wives tale that Couples begin swinging
because they are bored with their marriages, and Couples
who swing need therapy. In fact, it is the alive and
adventurous couple with a good relationship who is apt
to add swinging to their lifestyle! Swinging appeals to
their sexual, emotional, and recreational needs and
fantasies, and the desire to explore these together
rather than apart (Swinging vs. Playing Around).
Swinging is exciting and fun - a sharing experience,
often enhancing emotional and sexual growth. A good,
healthy relationship and open communication are perhaps
the first prerequisites for a successful introduction
into swinging, and typically the ability of a couple to
openly discuss the prospect of swinging is an excellent
indication of healthy communication. To most people it
is inconceivable that a person could allow his/her
partner to engage in recreational sex. To swingers, this
is considered an acceptable form of social recreation,
because a relationship between a swinging couple is
strong enough that each enjoys the enhanced sexual
pleasure of his/her partner, and takes gratification
from that pleasure, instead of misplaced jealously or
concern. Sexual intercourse, for the swinger in the
context of the party situation, is viewed as being
purely recreational and does not pose a threat to the
integrity or security of the marital relationship. To a
swinger, sexual play at parties is very much in its
overall significance like a game of bridge might be for
a non-swinging couple. At bridge parties, it is quite
common for the participants to select someone elses
spouse as a partner - a state of affairs seldom
perceived as threatening by those involved. For swingers,
taking someone elses spouse as a sexual partner has much
the same lack of emotional significance - they pursue
sex as a shared leisure activity. Swingers highly value
their friendships with the couples with whom they share
the recreational pursuit. Seeing or visualizing your
mate with another person often serves to activate a
swingers sexual interest in his/her own mate, and
swinger talk enthusiastically about how they arrive home
from a party even more charged toward their spouse then
when they left. The expectation of similar feelings in
themselves arises even in those who are relatively new
to swinging. Swinging couples do indeed tend to engage
in more sexual activity with their own spouses than
non-swingers. We believe and accept the fact that while
we want partners for life, we are not sexually
monogamous by nature. We recognize and accept each
others needs and desires, and have no desire to inhibit
each others growth, rather we share in one-anothers
experiences. True people of our lifestyles are dedicated
family people who have successfully separated sex from
love, not love from sex. Sex within the framework of the
marriage or committed relationship is a moving,
emotional experience of immeasurable beauty and
excitement. Sex in a swinging situation is a stimulating,
satisfying change-of-pace that satisfies the libido and
curiosity. Lifestyle sex is recreational sex with
friends; exciting, enjoyable, harmless, and extremely
satisfying.. People in our lifestyle find no need to
cheat or lie to one another. In fact, they share and
enjoy each others experiences as if they were an
extension of their own. We believe there is no right or
wrong when it comes to sex as long as the experience is
being shared by mutually consenting adults. Our
lifestyle is a vehicle whereby couples can explore their
sexuality and fantasies in a non-threatening environment
with like-minded people. The key word is consenting, and
both parties must agree that they are mutually
interested in what they have to offer each other.
Everyone has the freedom to be their own person, find
what they most enjoy, and experience it on a social,
sensual, and mature adult level. There are as many
varieties of interest as there are people, so there is
someone for everyone. Talking with other people is often
helpful and sometimes essential. You may find yourself
discussing things with another couple that you never
dreamed youd talk about with anyone! Listening to a
variety of opinions, talking with experienced couples,
and fitting all this into your own individuality can
help greatly. No one is ever under any obligation to
swing, rather swinging is an individuals prerogative and
a disinterested person need merely say No Thank You,
which always means no. No one is being pressured or
coerced under any circumstances - free choice is the
first rule of our lifestyles etiquette. To everyone who
becomes interested in the swinging way of live and
living, the question arises, sooner or later, shall we
join a group. This is necessarily a personal decision,
and each individual must make up his or her own mind,
however there are some consideration which may be
helpful to anyone seriously considering swinging. The
first of these is the fact that no binding commitment is
involved. If you decide to try swinging and then find
that you dont especially care for it, you can withdraw
and the matter ends there. Most people who do decide to
visit a swingers group have a thoroughly good time. For
a couple planning to swing, its very important that you
discuss your reasons and motivations. Make sure that you
have discussed the matter freely, so that there will be
no possibility of misunderstanding between you. Be sure
this is something you both want to do, and that you both
look forward to your first visit as something of an
adventure. If only one party wants to swing and the
other is uninterested, reluctant, or feels pressured to
go along, it will be impossible to swing without
complications. Be honest about your feelings and make
sure youre in agreement before you decide to take the
first step. It is reasonable to hold some reservations,
most people do; rather the important issue is that you
both are aware of each others feelings and keep the
lines of communication open. Generally, a trial period
of visits and getting acquainted is necessary before a
final decision is reached. Approach the situation with
the attitude that you are with a group of congenial
people, and if something happens beyond casual
conversation and good company, its something to be
enjoyed, not avoided. The basis of Alternative
Lifestyles is friendship - no one expects you to walk
through the door and do a strip or head for the bed
within five minutes of polite conversation. So relax and
enjoy the company and friendship of people like yourself
who experience the lifestyle. You have every right to
ask what you can look forward to receiving from the
swinging lifestyle. Normally, you can expect to receive
sexual excitement and companionship from people who are
good candidates for becoming valued friends. A swingers
group has even more to offer than most - it provides for
a complete change of attitude, a new type of freedom,
and a new type of living that can give you a new lease
on life. You can expect that you will acquire a
thoroughly healthy attitude toward sexuality, your own
body, and a more open relationship with your spouse,
both verbal and sexual. When it is all summed up and you
are at the point of decision, you may hesitate because,
you are, by inclination and upbringing, a moral person.
If this is the case, then chances are better than ever
that you will find swinging very much to your liking.
The group is filled with people of exactly this
background - if this philosophy appeals to you, you will
find that the swingers way of life is well beyond your
The desire and hope for friendship is the major reason
people give when they are asked about their interest in
the lifestyle. Because of this, we make every effort
possible to help you meet a variety of people. Making
new friends takes courage and some sort of effort on
your part - you dont have to swing with everyone you
meet, nor is the purpose of swinging to try and set
records for your sexual stamina. Swingers establish
solid friendships which continue long after the party is
over; remember, the best swinging encounters start with
good verbal communications. Dont be in a hurry, but take
the time to find out about the other couples desires and
interests. Just as this lifestyle is not for everyone,
you will not be friends with everyone you meet, but you
will find friends if you are honest and sincere. We
cannot guarantee you will like everyone, but we will do
all we can to help you feel welcome, meet people, and
learn about the lifestyle in a setting without pressure
or obligation. Swingers separate romantic sex from
recreational sex - sex with a lover or partner is
magical, however enhancing the pleasure in your
relationship by sharing sexual fulfilment is an
extremely potent aphrodisiac. Many non-swingers also
feel that jealousy is a part of our lifestyle, but in
reality jealousy is a learned emotion that we have been
taught to link with romantic sex, but recreational sex
is non-threatening, as one truly has nothing to do with
Advantages of a Swinging Group
There exists an exciting array of social interaction in
the swinging community! Attending a dance or party is
certainly no obligation to swing, but there is an
opportunity to meet several couples at one time that all
share the same mindset - a propensity to consider a
recreational sexual relationship in pursuit of mutual
pleasure. A potential for twosomes, threesomes,
foursomes, or group activity is available. Couples may
swing open, closed, or couple to couple. No pressure
exists on the timing, frequency, or number of activities,
and each half of a couple may participate however they
wish, within their own guidelines. Couples especially
enjoy the spontaneous, unplanned sensual happenings the
party scene provides. If a man or woman is interested in
swinging with someone, it is not necessary that his or
her partner appeals to or swings with the other partner.
A couple can easily relate to one another whenever they
wish, privately discussing their feelings and attitudes,
expressing affections, without being concerned that
their actions will be interpreted by another couple as a
lack of interest in swinging as a couple - all options
are open, as long as the proper attitude is maintained.
What will swinging do to my relationship?
Couples who engaging in swinging activities have
reported that swinging has enhanced their relationship,
and the activity of sharing pleasure can promote
understanding, communication, and intimacy. Sometimes
you may swing as a couple; sometimes you may swing as a
threesome; sometimes you may swing open, closed,
separately. The point is that all of these activities
can enhance a relationship, however care must be taken
that your mate/partner is always cognizant of what is
happening, the pleasure you are having, and the result
of your pleasure - more fun for your mate!
What kind of people are in CSR?
Many different types of people are part of CSR -
enrollment is open to all interested adults, regardless
of race, education, religion, or social class, but all
share a common objective, a willingness to explore the
joys of living. People who swing successfully are
emotionally mature, tend to have excellent marriages and
intimate relationships. They generally are successful in
their social and business lives.
What is CSRs objective?
CSR strives to provide the finest food available, the
best dance music, and the best possible facilities for
your dining, dancing, and getting acquainted pleasure.
CSR brings together old friends and helps to establish
new ones in an evening of relaxation and enjoyment. CSR
has made every effort to assist in fulfilling your
desires and fantasies.
Is CSR different from other clubs?
Within the world of swinging there are swing clubs,
party houses, cocktail lounges, bars, bottle clubs,
socials, and contact magazines - all offer swinging, but
in different styles and structures. Unlike most swing
organizations, CSR is private, and to many of its group,
a community with a sense of intimacy and belonging. CSR
offers social and recreational activities not commonly
offered by others.
Are CSR activities private?
All CSR functions are private affairs - none are open to
the public. If anyone appears or tries to enter and is
not a member of the group, he/she/they are quietly
escorted from the premises before entering any CSR
What is the Hospitality Suite?
The Hospitality Suite is open to all those who attend
the function, a social area with snacks, soft drinks,
and coffee. It is not a designated party area.
Are cameras allowed?
You may take pictures only if you ask the people
involved for their express permission, and then go to
the designated photo area so as to not accidentally
include others from whom you have not obtained
permission. No cameras are allowed in the social areas.
What rules apply to the public areas?
Public areas are to be used for what they were designed
- getting from one place to another. Good judgement and
taste should be exercised at all times.
Will my name and telephone number be published?
CSR will not give out any information about Members to
anyone, even other Members - all information is strictly
confidential. If you wish to make contact with someone
else in the group, we will gladly try to pass a message
to them; at no time, however, will we divulge any
information, even to other members. The other couple is
then free to return your email or call at their
What are the accommodations?
Accommodations for overnight guests are made in the same
hotel, in one section dedicated to CSR. Those who wish
to continue the festivities may do so without being
annoyed by outsiders, as our own security staff ensure
privacy of the CSR area.
Is swinging all the fun it is said to be?
You bet it is! Swinging can be every bit as erotic,
exciting, adventurous, and fulfilling as you imaging it
might be. Explore a favorite fantasy, engage in private
intimate sexual activity, share another with your mate
in a threesome, enjoy another couple, or engage in group
swinging -- all in the same evening! Furthermore,
swinging can add spice to your relationship and personal
How can we experience this lifestyle?
Give us a call, and we will schedule an orientation for
you. We will discuss enrollment, swinging, answer your
questions, and verbally take you through a typical CSR
function describing the party structure, what to wear,
what to bing with you, how to ask how to decline, and
swinging etiquette. We will give you the information you
need so that your first function will be a pleasurable
and memorable experience. On attending your first CSR
function, whether a newcomer to swinging or a trooper,
you will be introduced to a host couple who will show
you around and introduce you to others. The staff of CSR
is available to you at any time to answer questions.
we are a couples only off premise social club. BYOB with
snacks and mixers provided. Private hall with rooms
nearby. must comtact owners for membership verification.
Springfield Social Club
Probably the most asked question
by couples considering whether the" Lifestyle" is for
them is " how do we get started?". One of the reasons we
started our club was to create a place where consenting
adults could come and meet others with the same
interests. This means anyone who comes to our dances is
open-minded. It does not mean that anyone should ever
feel obligated to participate.
We encourage people to get to know each other in a
social setting with no pressure to do anything more than
enjoy a great party and meet new friends. It is our
intention to provide you with a safe and comfortable
environment to do just that. We are first and foremost
interested in making new friends and sharing ideas. The
decision to actively enter "The Lifestyle" is always
yours. Go at your own pace.
The Hideaway is a private members only club for
We provide a very upscale environment, where you would
be just as comfortable having your wedding reception as
attending our weekly dances. Cleanliness, new
furnishings, great organization, clean restrooms,
tablecloths, romantic lighting These are just a few of
the things that make The Hideaway different.
What is The Hideaway?
The Hideaway is a private, BYOB, off-premises club for
couples who either practice, or have an interest in,
alternative lifestyles. Located in the greater Kansas
City metro area, The Hideaway provides an upscale,
discreet, no pressure atmosphere where members can
dance, socialize and meet others who share similar
interests in alternative lifestyles.
What does BYOB mean?
Unlike a bar, The Hideaway does not sell or serve
alcoholic beverages of any kind. We allow our members to
bring in their own alcoholic beverages and we provide
complimentary setups. You are even welcome to bring a
small cooler if you wish. However, we do ask that you
keep it tucked away so as to keep the aisles open. We
have a full service setup bar providing; glasses, ice,
Coca Cola products, fruit juices, water and coffee. We
also provide complimentary snacks. Please remember that
the States of Kansas and Missouri have open container
laws so if you are leaving the club with any opened
liquor bottles please lock them in your trunk before
What does off-premises mean?
Off-premises and on-premises are two terms used by swing
clubs to describe whether sexual activity takes place in
the club. The Hideaway is off-premises, which means no
sexual activity can take place in our facility.
Is The Hideaway a swingers club?
The fairest answer to this question would be yes. We are
a membership club that holds dances in a private
environment. This environment allows for more a bit more
self-expression than many other clubs, but does not take
away from our guarantee to you of a no pressure, relaxed
and comfortable environment in which to socialize, dance
and meet others with interests similar to yours. You do
not have to be a "swinger" to be a member of, or enjoy
the hospitality of The Hideaway.
Who are the people who attend The Hideaway?
The most common ages of the people you will find at The
Hideaway are from the mid 20s to late 40s. All age
groups however, are welcome. Most are married couples
although some are singles in committed relationships.
Many are professionals. They all have one thing in
common though; a desire to socialize in a sexually
charged, friendly, no-pressure atmosphere. Our members
are friendly and respectful, creating an atmosphere in
which you can feel comfortable.
How do I obtain a Membership to The Hideaway?
You must be at least 21 years of age. You must be a
male/female couple. Before your first visit to The
Hideaway please give us a call at (816) 215-5550 for a
reservation and directions. Upon your first visit to the
club you will receive a membership card that allows you
entry to the club. Please remember to bring your
driver's license or state issued ID with you for age
It's Our First time. What should we expect?
Our advice is to come with an open mind, and no
expectations. You are under no obligation to do anything
with anyone simply by attending. You may dance,
socialize, flirt, tease, tempt or just sit back and
watch. We strive to create a fun, flirty and erotically
electric atmosphere. No one is obligated to do anything
with anyone if they choose not to. This is an
Off-Premises club. That means there is no total nudity
or sexual activity in the club. However, we do allow and
encourage conversation, heavy breathing, dirty dancing
and seductive behavior. Keep in mind the number one rule
for interaction between people here is: No Means No. If
anyone at the club makes you feel uncomfortable at any
time let us know. We absolutely will not tolerate
aggressive or rude behavior. If you like, check out
Guidelines For A Good Time.
What Should I Wear?
Most every upscale establishment has a dress code. We
believe a dress code makes for a more pleasant
environment in which to socialize. So while we do have a
dress code, we're not tyrants about it. Here are our
Sexy, yet tasteful attire is recommended for women. Men
generally wear slacks, or jeans (in nice condition), and
a nice shirt. Some people dress as though they are going
to a nightclub.
Those who have been involved in the lifestyle for a
while tend to dress a little bit more risqu. While total
nudity is not allowed in the club we have seen, and
certainly appreciate very sheer and see through
garments. We ask only that you please cover yourself in
the parking lot.
If the evening has an announced theme feel free to wear
the appropriate theme related items. Dressing to the
theme is not required but it does make for a fun
Please do not wear torn or ragged jeans, T-shirts (with
the exception of dress Tees), tennis shoes, hats, or
sweatshirts. And on men, please, no tank tops, shorts,
What time should we arrive?
As early as possible! Doors open at 9 p.m. on Friday and
on Saturday. For the best seats you will want to get
here early. If you have a special occasion or a large
group, please contact us ahead of time so we can make
special arrangements for you if necessary. Please plan
on arriving before 11:00pm. At 11:00 pm we lock the
entry doors to allow our guests their privacy and to
allow the staff to enjoy the evening as well.
How should we approach someone if we are interested?
The oldest relationship advice in the world is probably
"smile, and be yourself". This works wonders when you're
trying to meet someone. If you see someone that you're
interested in walk up to them and introduce yourselves.
Be prepared to support half of a conversation. Not all
people are gregarious or outgoing. Some are shy, or new
to the scene, or overwhelmed by the atmosphere. If they
don't seem interested, or if you're not invited to sit
down, don't take this personally. Everyone has their
reasons for coming to The Hideaway and theirs may not be
the same as yours.
Where is the club located?
The Hideaway does not publish the location of its club.
For privacy and security reasons we attempt to limit
information about the club and its location to only
those who are members or choose to become members.
However, in general terms, The Hideaway is in the
greater Kansas City metropolitan area. Additionally,
this is a private event with controlled access. We do
not allow the general public in.
Why don't you have hotel rooms?
The Hideaway's goal is to create the best atmosphere for
your enjoyment that we can. This includes privacy,
security, and the freedom to express one's self (within
limitations) without unnecessary restrictions. We don't
believe that a ballroom, or bar in a hotel provides that
atmosphere as well as we can with a discreet, private
What if we have more questions?
Send us an e-mail or give us a call at (913)-788-4433.
We would be glad to answer any specific questions.
Xtra Sinsual Couples
XSC / XTRA SENSUAL COUPLES
Kansas City's finest Social Club
Couples (male & female) and single females
(at select socials *) with a couple escort.
21 & up
Socials are BYOB
The dance is $25.00 pre couple pre paid and 10.00 per
single female with a couple escort pre paid. Or 30.00
(cash only) at the door per couple and 15.00 per single
female with a couple escort. Checks or money orders must
be received at least one week in advance of the dance
date..Make it out to Amber.Send to XSC /Ron & Amber PO
Box 503 Grain Valley Mo. 64029. Please include your
names and email. Reservations required.
Since we are a PRIVATE CLUB a membership is required
after attending one social. A lifetime membership is
$30.00. A yearly is $15.00.The membership fee Is Not Due
until you come to your second dance. You must bring your
membership card and valid IDs to each dance you attend.
Rooms are 45.00 plus tax for a single or double. You can
walk to your hotel room to carry on the party so you
don't have drink and drive.
Verification of Couples
All new couples must be verified either by phone contact
or personal meeting.
Call 816 668 5245
You can also email us with number to reach the two of
you at as well. For more info email is