San Marcus Inn
Picture yourself in a desert paradise, lounging around a swimming pool with several other couples, everyone completely naked. In the pool, a beautiful bronzed woman floats on her back, her head and shoulders supported by one man while her legs are held afloat by another man.
Across the pool, on a lounge chair, a woman and another couple are taking advantage of their right to the pursuit of happiness. In the hot tub, a woman sits on her partner's lap with a big smile on her face...and this is during the day!
At night couples gather in the large hot tub where they can view movies and get to know one another a little better. Afterwards, some couples meet in the group room, or go off to their own rooms with their friends, some prefer to socialize in the hot tub or lounge area while others prefer to watch and be watched.
And yes, there are couples who go to the San Marcus Inn simply to relax, and work on their tan. The choice is yours, no pressure, just freedom.
This is the world of the San Marcus Inn, not just a clothing optional resort, and not just an alternative lifestyle club, San Marcus is the best of both worlds and such a place has been a long time overdue.
Enjoy a hot tub, a sparkling cool pool, recreation room, sauna, beautiful landscaping, newly remodeled rooms and total freedom. The San Marcus Inn Incorporated in Desert Hot Springs, California is a couples only, clothing optional, private membership resort that is open seven days a week. We are located just 7 miles north of Interstate 10 and only 12 miles from downtown Palm Springs.
Watsu and Massages
The San Marcus Inn now offers massage and facial services for the ladies. If you are interested in these services, please advise at time of booking.
Play Area
The San Marcus Inn has a very intimate adult play area for those of you that wish to use it. There is a lounge area complete with sofas where you can watch adult videos or retire to our playpen area that comes complete with mattresses and the "love swing".
Dining
Complimentary continental breakfast is included every day of the week with our regular overnight room rates.
Guests are also encouraged to bring their own beverages and snacks as many of our rooms come complete with kitchenette areas. Guests also have access to barbeque pits, which are located in our patio area.
If you prefer to dine in town there are several restaurants and eateries nearby. Our staff will be more than willing to make recommendations and provide driving directions in town.
Driving Instructions
Take Interstate 10 to the Palm Springs / Palm Desert area.
Exit Interstate 10 at Palm Drive / Gene Autry Trail.
Go North on Palm Drive towards Desert Hot Springs.
Continue North on Palm Drive for approximately 7 miles.
Turn Right on San Marcus Road, we are located on the left hand side.
San Marcus Inn, Incorporated
66540 San Marcus Road
Desert Hot Springs, California 92240.

SensualismParties
Sensualism Parties are erotically charged roving parties that feature the sexiest couples and woman in Southern California in exclusive private venues from spectacular mansions to private parties at the hottest strip clubs and nightclubs. Sensualism provides an atmosphere of temptation by surrounding you with beautiful people, seductive music, and erotic energy that will add spice to your life by turning your wildest fantasies into reality. Our average age range is from 21- 45. In Most cases our guest will recieve discounted drink specials and VIP treatment. You must be on our guest list to get into our events. Please view our events page for all your So Cal lifestyles party info.

SoCalPleasureSeekers
S.C.P.S. is about upscale venues, elegance, and class combined in an erotically charged atmosphere. We are above all about pleasure, fun, and enjoyment. Our number one concern is you, our audience. We want to provide a pressure free environment to enhance your ability to socialize, dance, or just kick back, and relax if that's your desire. Most importantly we are there to make sure you enjoy the evening. Our hosts are there for your pleasure, and to ensure you have a memorable experience. Socializing, meeting new, and exciting couples is what our experience is all about. Let us be the icebreakers if you wish. We will make any introduction requested, you just need to ask, think of us as your private concierges.
Parties are invitation only to ensure comfort and enjoyment for all guests. Entry is granted to established guests, and new invitees at the organizers discretion; if you would like to attend an event and feel that you would make a valid addition, contact us so that we may asses your suitability. S.C.P.S. reserves the right to refuse admission to any single females, couple, or group at our sole discretion. We do not grant invites to ANY SINGLE MALES. We reserve the right to remove any guest from our venue, guest list, and database as deemed appropriate. Behavior that is not conducive to the total enjoyment of other guests shall not be tolerated. Your attire, comportment, and composure will determine your suitability for the party. Anything that has a negative impact on the enjoyment of other guests will result in your immediate removal from the venue and a possible ban on all future events. So please, be responsible. We do not condone the use of drugs, overindulgence of liquor, or any other antisocial behavior.

Steve and Silvers
Our parties are from 8:00 PM till 2:00 AM and typically held on the 1st & 3rd Saturday of the month. During the holidays some exceptions are made.
Please arrive prior to 9:30 PM as we lock the front door which provides Steve, Silver and our Friendly helpers the opportunity to join in the party also. Your consideration of this request will be greatly appreciated.
The average age of those who attend our parties is between 40 and 60 with some younger and some older. The minimum age is 35 years old.
The majority of people who attend our parties are over 40 years of age (mature but active adults). Body types of those who attend vary but the majority of women are BBW's (Big Beautiful Women). Most men who attend are of average body type with some middle age spread.
Large bath sheet towels will be provided. You may want to bring a robe and slippers, since its cooler outside in the evening.
Please bring your own condoms and lubricant.
You are welcome to bring alcoholic beverages; we will provide soft drinks, ice, cups, etc. and we'll provide labels to mark your drinks.
Attendance is by invitation only and limited, so be sure to request an invitation early. Invitations can only be extended by Steve & Silver. If someone has referred you to our parties you still need to receive an invitation directly from Steve & Silver before attending. Please contact us REQUEST AN INVITATION.
Who's invited? - Invitations are extended to Couples, Unaccompanied Females and Select Unaccompanied Males in the lifestyle.
All Couples must enter the house together and depart together.
Contact us for an invitation by clicking here: REQUEST AN INVITATION
Smoking Policy
We provide both smoking and non-smoking areas to accommodate our guests. Smoking is prohibited within the house, except as listed below.
Smoking is permitted on the outside patios.

Suite Connections Private Parties
Hi,
We are two Socal couples on a friendly mission to bring you a different kind of sensual experience.
We are not your typical lifestyle swap fest. What we are is a place where you can come have a drink, relax and make your own unique erotic experience at your own pace. Our parties incorporate a seductive ambiance. They are low key, private and only for couples. We select hotel locations accessible to dining and nightlife so that your night has a pleasant beginning and a fabulous end.
Your invitation to our event is confidential and subtle. We do not mandate you to do anything except enjoy yourself. We don't charge outrageous amounts and we don't make you feel out of place. You and your partner are treated with respect at all times. The only thing we ask is that you're a couple or a single female, drug free, between the ages of 21 and 41, respectful, educated, stylish and open-minded.
Our parties are held at Hotel Luxury Suites throughout Southern California. The parties usually commence at 10PM and go well into the night. An invitation to one of our parties gives you a specific time, location and suite number(the day of the event). Please keep in mind that hotel rules apply to everyone and IN NO WAY IS THE HOTEL AFFILIATED WITH "SUITE CONNECTIONS." All party inquiries must be made directly to us. Anyone holding an invitation to our parties must be extremely discreet.

The Sweets Swinger PARTIES and Adult Play Ground
Sweet's Swinger Parties and Club the Finest couples only Swinger Club for active adults in the swingers lifestyle, this is M-F couples only club with parties twice a month in a 9000+ Sq Ft Ranch Style house in the most beautiful city in the world. San Fancisco. The house over looks the beautiful SF Coast Line. Singles and couples welcome.
A Premier Playground For Those Who Practice And Lively An Exciting Alternative Lifestyle!! This is the Clothing optional in home party pads of which we have many ;-).
A Modern Adult get away situated on 10 rolling acres. Nude sunbathing - an Executive Playground for the Elite.
The SWEET Retreat is the best of our lifestyle spacious houses with a Party area of over 9,882 square feet, including a game lounge.
The Lovebird lofts included in the amenities that truly makes this adult get away a veritable paradise. Other party house may not be as large but are just as fun.
Two large self serve bars, BYOB, ice and mixers provided. Have a drink and watch adult movies on a 4 52" HDTV screens.
We create parties all over California and sweets is our primary play ground. Email us with your full profile and information on the type of parties you would like to attend i.e. bi couple, str8 with bi fem, gay or lesbian. We will add you to our list which is by invitation ONLY. Pictures are not required. We have very nice accommodation with free breakfast.

SwingTimeParties
We are a BBW-BDSM-Exhibitionist/Voyuer-friendly club that caters to those who like mild to wild!All shapes/sizes/colors welcome. We hold 3 events per month in Los Angeles locales,for couples,single ladies & limited single men.
Your last stop for Acceptance and Friendships ( w/benefits! )
We are local to Southern California's Los Angeles and Orange Counties area's, an off-site group of friends and lovers. There are many types of members here, who are comfortable with many kinds of swinging .
Couples, single ladies and single men are welcomed to join and attend our, at present, 2 members parties a month.
Take a tour through our gallery of some of the fun we enjoy each month, and make your plans to join us soon!
Each Month a New Calendar will be placed here, telling of Party dates and individual members announcements. If you would like to add something to the next months calendar, just email it to me at webmaster@mstiffannie.com before the last Saturday of the month.

Sybrian Club
THE LARGEST, THE BIGGEST, & THE BEST LIFESTYLES CLUB IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA... What's LACouples? LACouples is the largest club of its kind in California. As you step into our purpose built 'Adult Disneyland', you could be forgiven for thinking that you have just arrived at the Lifestyle Equivalent of ''Heaven on Earth''. Enjoy a full deluxe buffet, accompanied by a full range of adult beverages, you can relax an socialize with the many other couples in attendance, or perhaps dance the night away, as our DJ spins the hottest sounds for the party goers on the dance floor... But that's not all... When you feel ready, feel free to explore our 32000 sq feet of custom made play areas. A Sultans Harem, an ''Under Water'' room, Spaceships, A Dark Room, a mirrored maze, a dungeon, and many many MANY more... Also, as if that wasn't enough, you can also experience what a $1500 Dollar Sex Machine feels like ! Yes, we have one there for you to try out... So, rest assured that whatever way your evening turns out... The one thing that IT WILL NOT BE... IS BORING !!!

Thads
Thad has hosted swing parties for consenting adults in San Diego County since 1974. Here is some insight into the "King Of Swing", and why his club was started and some of the notorious history behind him. Take a website tour of Thad's, the most erotic party house in Southern California.

The Carnal Manor  
Welcome to The Carnal Manor (TCM). We are a private Lifestyle party established in May 2000 and currently located at an exclusive three-acre estate, in Thousand Oaks, California. Our guests enjoy the several play rooms in our 5000 sq. ft. house along with the sexy heated pool, the hot steamy spa, the rockin' dance floor and of course, the selective, incredibly sexy TCM guest list. If you are among the hundreds of couples that have attended our wonderful wickedly wild parties over the past 4 years, then you know how awesomely sexy and outrageously sensuous our guests are. If you haven't yet experienced our incredibly seductive environment, be ready to fulfill your fantasies and get your world rocked! This sophisticated soiree is for couples and select females and is about your sensuality and desires.
For your refreshment, enjoy the many varieties of soft drinks, delicious juices and waters at our pool-side bar. If you wish alcoholic beverages, we ask that you please bring your personal favorites with you. TCM does not sell alcohol to any of its guests. We do provide the appropriate mixers for your favorite libation.
If you're hungry, we serve a catered buffet dinner. Perhaps a more sweet, delectable taste is on your mind, in that case, enjoy our rich and scrumptious desserts that will make you a hedonist after the first bite. The hosts always take time to personally meet each couple and throughout the evening assist in making introductions.
Every sensual amenity is meticulously looked after, especially for the ladies. When you enter our doors, expect to experience a grand night of erotic decadence, combined with a wickedly wondrous fun time while meeting a really cool group of people! TCM is in its 5th year producing Lifestyle parties and is proud to offer to its guests, this exciting, new hedonistic playground. Complimentary Valet Parking is on our estate grounds. We are now hosting 3 Saturday night shindigs each month.

The Fantasy Paradise
What is The Fantasy Paradise?
The whole idea of The Fantasy Paradise Website is to provide a place for couples and singles to be able to get in contact with others who are involved or wanting to be involved in the lifestyle.

What happens when I become a member?
Upon becoming a member you will have access to the members only site. There you can get in contact with others interested in the lifestyle of swinging. Members of The Fantasy Paradise Website may also request invitations to our complimentary parties.

What are the complimentary parties about?
The complimentary parties are held for members of The Fantasy Paradise website to be able to meet other members one on one, face to face in a non-pressured easy going, yet sexually provocative atmosphere. This allows members of the website to actually become involved with each other, without the pressures of dating, going out together, meeting others at their own home, etc... In other words... a safe, fun place to meet like minded people.

Where are these parties held?
Our complimentary parties are held in a place above the norm, that is classy and laid back, allowing members to become involved in the lifestyle/swinging at their own pace. The general location is in the Wildomar area of Southern California, which is halfway between Corona-Riverside and Murrietta-Temecula, just 5 minutes off either the 15 or 215 Fwy! Detailed directions to the complimentary parties are only given out by phone when a couple or single calls for the phone interview.

What actually goes on at the parties?
Members who come out to the parties find a nightclub environment where they can enjoy meeting others that are like-minded. At these parties members are able to actually talk with one another and find out if there is any interest in each other. We have private and group play areas just in case things click!

Do I / we have to have sex with others at these parties?
NO! Its as simple as that!

Will the atmosphere be sexual at The Fantasy Paradise websites parties? May others be having sex?
Yes, couples and singles do come out to these parties to swing and have sex with others!

What if Im asked to play / have sex and dont want to?
Simply say, no.
A no means NO... the first time... every time. You are never required to be sexual or have sex to be involved with The Fantasy Paradise Website or at parties that are held for its membership.

Is sex a guarantee by attending a complimentary party?
There is NEVER a guarantee of sexual activity by attending one of the complimentary parties.

What is the dress attire for couples at these complimentary parties/events?
As a couple attending one of the parties/events at The Fantasy Paradise, one of the reasons for attending is to meet others. You as a couple are comfortable and know each other, whereas others dont know you yet. The better you look, the nicer you are dressed, the more others are going to be interested in meeting you. The first impression is always best, to be a good impression. Wearing nice clothing is always going to get one; more looks and more openness than wearing what you lounge around in at home, with just each other around. Take the time to get dressed up a little.
If youre not dressing for the theme of the party you are attending (theme participation is never a requirement to attend any party/event at The Fantasy Paradise!), then as a guy wearing a nice pair of pants (jeans are okay, but slacks are better), with a nice shirt and as a lady, wearing a nice dress, or a nice skirt and blouse, you will find always fits in. The better the first impression to others, the better the chances of you getting somewhere with others! The Fantasy Paradise is a classy place, with classy couples and singles in attendance, try to fit in as best as you can, to get the most that you can!

What is the dress attire for singles?
It is always wisest to dress to impress. The nicer one looks, the more others are going to want to be involved with you. If you are coming out in a casual look, dress in a nice casual way. Wearing a pair of jeans, a sweatshirt/T-shirt and a baseball cap on backwards (or on front wards) is not going to impress anyone. Wearing a nice pair of jeans (a nice pair of slacks, will even go farther), a clean shirt, and a nice attitude, will help you to meet others a whole lot quicker. Its ALWAYS right to have taken a shower and to wear some cologne (dont be a cologne factory, a little goes a long ways) to attract others to you! The Fantasy Paradise is a classy place, with classy couples and singles in attendance, try to fit in as best as you can!
If you are attending one of our Wednesday/Friday Parties, find a nice pair of boxer shorts/underwear to wear. Look at yourself in a mirror with what you intend to wear at the party, see if YOU would want to be approached by yourself, wearing what you see. The better the first impression to others, the better the chances of you getting somewhere with others! Wearing an old pair of white underwear, with stains on them is NOT going to get you as far as the guy wearing a clean pair!

How do I / we get involved with The Fantasy Paradise Website?
The first step is the phone interview. You need to call Andrea and Ken at (951) 246-2879.

What are these phone interviews about?
The phone interview consists of giving you information about The Fantasy Paradise website and how to become a member. We will explain what you can expect to happen when you attend one of the complimentary parties of The Fantasy Paradise Website. During the phone interview all of your questions will be answered... allowing you to feel comfortable about becoming involved with The Fantasy Paradise Website and attending one of its complimentary parties.

What will I be asked during the phone interview?
Your first name and whether you are a couple or single.

What is required to become a member of The Fantasy Paradise Website?
Besides the phone interview, you must be 21 years or older. You need to call Andrea and Ken at (951) 246-2879.

After becoming a member, how do I get invited to one of the complimentary parties?
All of the complimentary parties are attended by invitation and reservations are required. Please give us a call at (951) 246-2879. You must request an invitation and receive a reservation confirmation for each party you wish to attend. If you arrive at a party without first receiving a reservation confirmation you will be turned away. No exceptions!

How do I / we become involved with other Fantasy Paradise Websites members via the website?
By posting in the member's message board or by leaving contact information posted for other members to see.

Is it true that members really become friends?
We personally have friendships with other couples and singles in the lifestyle that are over 10 years in length. There are couples and singles that want to make lifetime friends and others that want one-night stands. Usually, what you put into a relationship with other swingers is what youre going to get out of it.

Are singles (male and female) allowed at your parties?
The Fantasy Paradise allows couples (both married and unmarried - boyfriend/girlfriend and singles (both male and female) to attend our parties on Wednesday, Friday and Saturday nights. We do not allow married singles to attend our parties, unless they are attending with their spouses approval and knowledge. The Fantasy Paradise Website is lifestyle oriented and is committed to swinging... not cheating on one's spouse or adultery. (Please see the section on what swinging is for our definition of swinging.) We limit the number of single males at our parties to a low ratio allowing couples and single females that are in attendance to feel comfortable.

Do you show pictures of your members or guests in the public area of your website?
Members of The Fantasy Paradise Website that attend its complimentary parties come from all walks of life who desire and deserve anonymity. We feel our members would not want us, or any other website, to have pictures of them available to others without their permission.
For those who wish to share, we have personal photo and home page sections in our members only area. Any member of The Fantasy Paradise Website can have their picture/phone posted, just email Andrea and Ken at kajswing@hotmail.com and we'll get them up for you!

Do you allow cameras or video recorders at your parties?
No cameras, audio or video recorders are ever allowed at any Fantasy Paradise party or event. This includes cell phones that take pictures! Do not bring them in to the party.

What kind of people attend the complementary parties?
We have doctors, lawyers, tradesmen, teachers... along with every other occupation attend our parties. Our members are generally in their 30's and 40's and come in all sizes, shapes and colors. Generally speaking, our members are not only very classy people, but also some of the better looking people we know of. One of the best traits our members possess is friendliness.

What can I (we) expect when we arrive?
We give all members a tour of the facilities when you attend your first complementary party. This is done so you can see that the facilities are well kept.. clean... nice... and also so you can see what the other members in attendance are like. This is done upon arrival, before a couple/single has to decide whether they want to attend or not.

Still not sure?
We understand this may be a big step for you. Take a look at our message board to see what others, just like you, have to say.
If you have other questions about The Fantasy Paradise Website, the complimentary parties, or on the swinging lifestyle, please feel free to contact Andrea and Ken at kajswing@hotmail.com or give us a call at (951) 246-2879.