You Don't Pay For Sex? (Think
By Brandon Tanner
may not leave $300.00 on the dresser or in a bowl on the
coffee table, but ultimately, you pay for sex.
much did dinner and a movie cost? What about that nice gift
and the bottle of good wine? Don’t forget a bouquet of
flowers or half dozen fresh roses. Yes, you pay for sex one
way or another. The ladies spend a few bucks for sex as well.
My wife, Loren, can add her point of view.
LOREN: “Sometimes I think a woman will spend more than the
man. Sexy lingerie doesn’t come cheap and if the lady wants
to cater to a gentleman a little bit, she’ll have a
selection of outfits. Then consider more money for the dinner
dress and a new pair of heels.” She laughs. “The heels I
wear with my sex outfits aren’t exactly street shoes.”
TANNER: Tell us about our experience yesterday, which also
involved paying for sex.
LOREN: “Right, the adult store. Friends of ours own the
business and do quite well. We were shopping there yesterday.
Everything in there is expensive and it’s all to enhance
TANNER: To my surprise, there were about six young women
buying outfits, sexy heels, various toys and oils. Even if
they were bi or gay, it’s still sex and money is being spent
on it. Take our business for example. Loren, you explain it;
you do most of the work anyway.
LOREN: “We run a private modeling/video service for
gentlemen who don’t want to go to an adult store or buy sexy
outfits by mail order. We handle one client at a time, in our
studio, in a discrete manner. The customer responds to one of
our ads, sets an appointment and comes to our place. He
watches a video of me in sexy lingerie. Each outfit costs at
least $150.00. Brandon takes care of the viewing process while
I wait in the studio already dressed in one of the outfits.”
TANNER: The video breaks the ice and makes the client feel
more comfortable. He really wants to see Loren in person.
LOREN: “The gentleman gets excited by the video because he
sees his girlfriend mistress or wife wearing the outfits. Then
he meets me and experiences the pleasure which the lingerie
will bring him.”
TANNER: Once the client sees Loren actually wearing the
outfits, the sale is in the bag and he’s paid for sex yet to
LOREN: “On occasion the program reverses; we get women
setting up a private viewing. That becomes real fun for me;
the ladies want to mix and match the outfits, try them on and
sometimes … try me on. That part I love!”
TANNER: So do I because I get to watch – sometimes I get –
LOREN: “Brandon – enough!” She slaps his leg. “Bottom
line is; purchasing the garments, garters, nylons and heels is
paying for sex in advance.”
TANNER: So how would you evaluate the client’s attitude when
he/she shells out two or three hundred bucks for the outfits
and then more on dinner and a movie?
LOREN: “Simple. If the guy doesn’t actually hand the cash
to his sex partner, he’s not paying for the act. I have no
idea how they can see it that way but nearly all of them
TANNER: It’s the Clinton syndrome.
LOREN: “The what?”
TANNER: Former President Clinton’s stupid statement, “I
did not have sex with that woman!” He didn’t think oral
sex was having a sexual encounter. Your comment above covers
the issue perfectly.
LOREN: “It does because it’s just a macho-mental thing.
There are other possible costs involved in a sexual encounter
whether you’re sneaking around on a girlfriend or your
TANNER: Which are?
LOREN: “First, the obvious … disease. The Internet is full
of Hot Lady – Cum Fuck Me ads, which I think most are fake,
maybe not, but pretty close. If they are real and you connect,
how do you know what you’re getting into? It’s a risk with
or without condoms. Don’t plunge in until you know what
dangers you’re really entering into.”
TANNER: Which are?
LOREN: “Getting caught by the girlfriend or wife, which can
be really costly. Another good one is the sexy weekend fling
who didn’t understand the words no commitment. That one can
strike you at work or in a stray piece of email that just
happens to get read by the wrong eyes.”
TANNER: Thank you, Loren, as usual your comments are
enlightening. In summation, I think we can understand the main
concept here. There is no such thing as a free lunch and no
such thing as free sex!