The Art of Eating Pussy
is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy.
Pussies come in all different sizes, colors and shapes. Some
are tucked inside and some have thick luscious lips that come
out to greet you. Some are nestled in brushes of fur and
others are covered with transparent fuzz. Others are shaved
clean for that deliciously soft and sensual look.
your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her
are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during
lovemaking. They also respond more to verbal love, which
means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to give
her a lasting impression and get her to BEG you for more.
Hearing that you find her hot and sexy and that she smells
good and tastes good while you are petting and stroking her
beautiful pussy, makes her feel incredibly vulnerable to you,
and can make a huge difference to her entire dynamic with you.
smart man knows how to be sincere and to a woman, this is the
difference between being fucked, and being made love to. An
intimate man is much more arousing than one who doesn't know
the art of being nurturing.
Most women are shy and insecure about their bodies. Even if
you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you,
she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her
it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her
how soft she is, but get her to trust you enough to let you
down between her legs.
stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it?
Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even
lick them if you want to. Women have clits in all different
sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It
doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it
means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Spreading a woman's pussy apart is incredibly intimate. She
knows you are seeing her most private parts and this turns her
on. Being totally exposed, helps her to show you how much she
Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is
wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside
her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her
clit because it doesn't have any juices of its own and is
extremely sensitive.Your finger will stick to it if it's dry
and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit right
away anyway. You have to work up to that.
anticipation of you licking it can be a great way to build her
up to arousal. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too
delicate to be handled. Approach her pussy slowly. Now spread
the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit.
you gently pull the hood down to expose her budding clitoris,
it's like a little baby penis, red and wanton. It is very
sensitive to touch, sucking, and blowing on.
with what makes her moan. She will let you know when you are
hurting her. She would rather you explored her sensitivities
by going too far, rather than being too gentle and
Many women use vibrators or masturbate a lot with their
finger, so their clits might be insensitive. Where you will
find some women are very sensitive to a gentle touch, others
might need a more wild, animalistic approach.
You can ask your woman which she prefers and proceed
accordingly. Women, even
more so than men, love to be teased. Teasing, by avoiding the
contact with the clit for a long time, can send a woman into a
frenzy once you finally DO make that magic contact.
inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss
it, and make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come
dangerously close to her pussy, and then float away. Make her
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your
face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without
pressing down on it to further excite her.
After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking
up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer
to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her,
gently, then harder.
use your fingers to gently separate her pussy lips and when
she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers
of folds. Gently spread her legs more with your hands.
you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done tenderly.
Tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell
out of her because by now she wants some attention given to
her clit. Use your chin as well. Tongue her from the bottom of
the slit, deeply into her pussy, and bring the chin through
the path as well
you have a day's worth of growth on your chin, this sandpaper
effect feels wonderful on an aroused clitoris.You will notice
her screams and moans when you complete the path by rubbing
your chin firmly over the clit (rather like licking an ice
Bald men can even rub their heads firmly up and down the area
to further excite her and give a unique and rewarding
Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek
out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it
might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your
tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You
may barely experience its presence. But even if you can't feel
the tiny pearl, you can make it swell by licking the skin that
hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the pussy lips
away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or
not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder or
her back to arch.
this happens, you had better be willing to go the distance.
When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your
lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to
suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If
she can handle it, begin to suck harder. Suck the whole labia
(inner lips, sometimes a big flap) into your mouth while
she likes it, suck even harder. You can even bite down on the
lips and clit a bit to heighten her sensations. Go with her.
If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her
rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and
keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what
she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!'
a reason for that; most men stop too soon. She is
letting you know that this action is what it is going to take
to get her over the edge. It takes the same motion over and
over again to get her to the crescendo that you are
trying to achieve. More
experienced gobblers know to continue doing the same motion
until she cums.
There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's
pleasure. You can finger-fuck her or use a dildo while she's
enjoying your clit-licking talents, before, during or after.
She'll really like it.
addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a
woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her
vagina. This is what you rub up against during penetration.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three are too wide to
get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate
her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little
faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when
she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to
If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same
time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be
giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that
she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her
out for symptoms.
woman is unique. You may have one whose nipples get hard when
she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your
girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her
symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover.
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't
let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she
starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue
along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering
the top. Move your tongue in and out of her pussy.
your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently
though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play
your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way.
woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm.
A more advanced technique that comes with experience, is when
you are fucking
her doggie style and you pull out, and get down and devour her
pussy from that angle. The sensations she feels with this
technique make the difference between a good lover and a
man who is about to cum while fucking doggie style, but who
pulls out because he knows his partner is not yet ready to
join him in cumming together, can make a wonderful offering by
using this trick to get her more aroused. Some women can't cum
in this position because they don't have the clitoral
stimulation that they need.
especially if the man has a smaller penis, and does not quite
rub her g-spot enough to make her cum.
the women I have asked if a man has ever done this, the one's
who have were totally delighted, and said it was rare but that
they wished all men would do it.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her
come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's
ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke
her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly
until she has come all the way down.
A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel
no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires
some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments
after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual
experiences you can have. But it's what you make it.
your time, practice often, and pay attention to your
lover's signals, and most of
all, enjoy yourself and your woman.
© 2003 Tami Fox. All rights reserved.