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Giving The Ultimate Blow Job!
by
WiseWoman
One of the most honoring and sexy ways a man can be pleasured
is when a woman adores his cock. I think a cock represents
about 80% of his ego <giggle>, so if you want to make
your man smile from his soul; you need to completely and
thoroughly ADORE his cock. One of the BEST ways to do this
is to suck it for him. And I don't mean just lightly lick it,
I mean take it in your hand, devour it, lick it hard,
suck it hard and feel it down your throat.
First of all, men know if you like doing this or not, just by
how you go about it. If you don't like it, he will know
because the enthusiasm is not there. Be PASSIONATE about
giving head. Go for the gusto and it will turn him on so
incredibly that he will say "I had the BEST blowjob
today," and he will remember it for many hours of
masturbation later. <smile>
A woman in charge of the blowjob and who wants to seriously give
her man pleasure is in control of him in this moment. Make
sure he knows YOU are sucking him; he is NOT fucking your
face! One thing I always tell the man is not to put his hand
on my head. I don't need any help pushing my head down.
God I just HATE that!!!
Here are some tips (hee hee, pun intended) for truly making
love to your partners penis:
1) Grab his cock hard and suck it hard. Let him tell you if
it's too hard. Don't be afraid you will hurt him. Have
you ever seen a man jack off??? You think he's going to
seriously hurt himself. LOL. He yanks that thing and
pulls it so hard, you think he is going to pull it off!!!
2) Make noises like "mmmmm" or moan when you take it
into your mouth. He will feel like he is a yummy lollipop
as you slurp his love muscle. He is thinking to himself,
"Oh she just loves my cock," and this excites
him unbelievably. Remember,
you are sucking his EGO.
3) Get it WET. Most men LOVE sloppy slurpy juicy blowjobs. The
saliva heats up with friction and is a real turn on for the man.
4) Stroke his balls, but do this carefully. I love men who
shave down there because the softness of their skin is
such a turn on to me. Also, licking is more fun and
sucking balls that are shaved is HOT!!
5) Create a good suction and pop his cock in and out of your mouth.
On circumcised men (more common in America than anywhere
in the world) the lip of the helmet is sensitive and some
men just go wild when you flip this lip as if you could tip it
off his shaft. This is a technique that many don't know about, but
it drives men nuts. The part that is most sensitive is the part
underneath where the shaft meets the head and causes a valley
up the head to the pee hole. Flick this spot in an upward motion
with your rigid tongue and cup the rest of the head with
your mouth and lips, sucking at the same time. Then plunge
his cock down your throat while tonguing his shaft
wildly, creating suction as if it is stuck to the roof of your mouth.
Any time you can suck then tongue then suck, you can get
incredible results and moans from your man. (They are usually
looking up at the heavens by this time <snicker>)
6) Let him watch as you master his cock (ego). If you are
lying on the bed between his legs, or if he is standing
looking down, he is intently watching you. Use one hand
to stroke his tummy, balls, up and down his legs, thighs,
nipples, and hold his cock with the other hand so you can
guide it carefully away from your back teeth. Guys, who
pull your hand away, sometimes regret it because they
don't realize you are keeping his precious head from
those sharp grinders in the back of your mouth. If
they've pulled your hand away though, it might be an
indication that you were squeezing too hard, or that he wants
you to take his cock deeper into your mouth, especially if
he is small (4" or less) and your hand takes up most of
the length of the shaft. Going all the way down is
incredibly pleasurable for the man to see his cock
disappear (as if down your throat).
7) One time I was with some bi men and was watching how they
sucked each other, and one technique I had never tried is to
start at the tip and spiral down to the bottom of the shaft. Twist
your head and mouth as you go down. Apparently this feels
great for the man. Go all the way down. If he is too long for
you to do this, go as far as you are comfortable with going. The
gag reflex kicks in when you go too far but you can
circumvent that reflex with practice in opening up your lower throat.
I love to be able to get ten inches down my throat. <wicked
grin> Who doesn't??? (We know where it eventually ends
up don't we?? Hee hee hee).
8) Suck his balls. Men don't usually get a lot of attention to their
balls because most women think they'll hurt them. But if you
gently stroke them and suck them by taking one into your mouth
at a time, tonguing it then moving to the other one, you will
see how much enjoyment is derived from this attention. Then
use your tongue horizontally up the vein of the cock and feel
him gasp when you again, suck the head into your mouth.
9)Don't forget to use your tongue a lot. The flicking and wagging
of your tongue using good pressure is very pleasurable.
Try twirling it around the head one way, than the
other way. Again, this will bring gasps and moans.
10) I recently discovered how much fun playing with an uncircumcised
cock is. All that skin is fun to suck on and lightly chew
on. Most men who are uncut are extremely sensitive when
you expose his penis by pushing the skin all the way down
and holding it down to suck him (but be careful here as some
can find this painful). You have to ask the man which he
prefers. Exposed or unexposed. And leaving the skin up
makes it a little difficult to create and maintain a good
suction, but it is much easier doing the up and down
motion with gliding smoothness. Sometimes I try to leave
the skin up and stick my tongue between the outer skin and
see how far down I can slide my tongue in before the skin folds
back with my motion. Pressure is important too. Squeezing
with your lips as you move up and down is VERY
important. Consistent pressure evenly squeezing with a hand and
lips is usually what makes him cum.
11) Another little trick that makes my men gasp with pleasure is
when I use my teeth ever so gently on the cap of the penis. Be
sure there is a lot of saliva for gliding your teeth on. I
start out by having my teeth clenched together at the tip
of the penis. Then as I glide down the cap I slowly open
my jaws. My lips are closed around the shaft as my head
moves downward. Then I flick my tongue as my teeth give
way and cause a suction with it. This sensation seems to
bring a new experience to each recipient and usually
elicits some comment like. "My God, where did you
learn that??"
12) And last but not least, swallowing cum. I have asked men which
they prefer. A woman swallowing his cum or him jacking
off in the last seconds before he cums, onto her breasts,
ass or whatever. Many men grew up watching porn and in
all porn, pulling out of the mouth and other orifices is the
norm, so the viewer can see the glorious "cum shot."
As a result, many men associate an awesome orgasm with
pulling out and cumming on her breasts, face, tummy or
ass as he strokes. It is a turn on to see the fruits of
your labor for sure, or feel the warm love juice on your
breasts. And it's especially nice when the man then goes
and gets a warm washcloth, and cleans you up after that.
That is a return compliment. But most will say they want
you to swallow. Of the top 5 questions MOST asked by guys
online, "Do you swallow?" is one of the most
asked questions. This is because if you remember in the beginning,
my first point was; a man's ego lives in his penis. If
you swallow his ambrosia, his EGO is given the ULTIMATE compliment.
After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis
alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more
attention for a few minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed
on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while
he is resting and recuperating.
You are now equipped with some knowledge of how to pleasure
your partner in ways he might not be familiar. Listen to
the noises he makes and be acutely aware of what makes him
happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to just warming
him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things:
Patience plus passion plus proper pressure plus variety
of moves plus swallowing his cum is going to get your
man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job.
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